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back in 2006 i had a relationship with a girl, we were in our half twenties at that time, we loved each others but outside problemes separates us, she had to move and i had to follow, i didnt work right away, when back together and all of a sudden she became cold never calling me back until i understood that she wanted me out of her life. she obviously found somebody else, pictures from facebook confirmed what i was thinking was right, the new boyfriend was even surrounded by her familly members in pictures (in our culture it means that the marriage is on the way). i never contacted her or even try in 4 years. las year i opened a profile on dating website and i found her there...big surprise...i waited about 6 months later and then i dropped a word on her FB mail, she responded, we updated info about our lifes but she is still cold is if she was talking to stranger i stopped writing to her just to see, she never write anything to me since.
how can she be so cold blooded , and not feeling about the good moments we had together, she just want somebody to get married with and shows . sometimes i caint understand woman
Sometimes feelings just die out. But that's usually a sign the person didn't love you in the 1st place. They liked you, and your company for a while, then got bored of you. Feelings can be very fickle. You can be into someone 1 min, and sick of them the next.
But it's not always that way. True love lasts. However, it's also hard work and sacrifice and compromise. This girl just didn't love you. She just liked you for a while.
So, it's nothing to do with "women." Just a case of you being with the wrong woman--or the wrong woman for you, I should say.
Guys are the same. Girls like guys, they sweet talk have fun, have sex. next thing the girls know, the guys are distant, lose interest and end up with another woman.
I suspect that you did or said something that you are not sharing with us. If the coldness came on suddenly and she still feels that way today, you seriously offended her somehow.
Good moments that you had 10 years ago do not give you a claim upon her. Move on.
back in 2006 i had a relationship with a girl, we were in our half twenties at that time, we loved each others but outside problemes separates us, she had to move and i had to follow, i didnt work right away, when back together and all of a sudden she became cold never calling me back until i understood that she wanted me out of her life. she obviously found somebody else, pictures from facebook confirmed what i was thinking was right, the new boyfriend was even surrounded by her familly members in pictures (in our culture it means that the marriage is on the way). i never contacted her or even try in 4 years. las year i opened a profile on dating website and i found her there...big surprise...i waited about 6 months later and then i dropped a word on her FB mail, she responded, we updated info about our lifes but she is still cold is if she was talking to stranger i stopped writing to her just to see, she never write anything to me since. how can she be so cold blooded , and not feeling about the good moments we had together, she just want somebody to get married with and shows . sometimes i caint understand woman
Believe it or not you probably unknowingly wield a fair amount of power and influence over her thoughts and decision making so it's a all or nothing approach on her part.
1. I'm not sure what your "half twenties" means. Were you 10 when you dated?
2. You dated this girl for less that a year 8 years ago. You broke up. You contacted her 8 years later and she's not interested in having contact. You're bothered by this. But this is what breaking up means. One or both members of the couple don't love the other person anymore, and you go your separate ways. Move on!
The first person you need to understand is you - not her.
-Why on earth did you follow her to timbucktoo? You ended up with non life of your own and probably became 100% dependant on her smothering. The worst advice someone could give someone is to move for someone else, particularly with no strength in their existing relationship.
If you don't want kids and you feel she does - where is the communication?
Oh but her behaviour is because she's a WOMAN, right?
Not because she just isn't that into you?
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