Be honest, are you more flattered or Insulted......

[J.P.]

Originally Posted by rego00123

One affects the other, so yes it does.

You're attempting to lay a base without taking outside factors in to the equation.

If you're that high status, your location, race, etc doesn't take away from it.

[rego00123]

Originally Posted by J.P.

If you're that high status, your location, race, etc doesn't take away from it.

If that was the case nobody would be moving locations, jobs, lifestyles to make attracting mates more viable.

They are all changing the factors of your base argument.

[meaning]

Originally Posted by J.P.

I have nothing to prove to you. But if it'll make you feel better, I can upload a pic to my profile later on and you can see.

nope here. coz I don't want to friend you just to see your pic, LOL. I click your profile and said it's only accessible to friends. Also so everyone here can see if you have the right to be insulted to that poor 'average' looking chick they set you up with.

[Amelie90]

Originally Posted by dave nz

Be honest, are you more flattered or Insulted, when someone hits on you that is way out of your league.
By that I mean someone that is way below you in looks, income, status etc.

Insulted for me.

I don't find it flattering or insulting. I just find it funny. Men who I have zero interest in always go out of their way to talk to me.

[savoytruffle]

Didn't read most of this thread (too many posts!).

I just don't see myself being 'insulted' at all. I'd be flattered just by the fact the guy even TRIED to approach me. So many just do nothing, as this forum proves. I have been hit on by guys whose looks are not impressive but c'mon. Some people don't get ANY attention and would give a leg to just have someone show interest. I'd only be insulted if some offensive or lame pick-up line was used.

[artemis agrotera]

Originally Posted by dave nz

Be honest, are you more flattered or Insulted, when someone hits on you that is way out of your league.
By that I mean someone that is way below you in looks, income, status etc.

Insulted for me.

It depends on how they go about it, their looks/income/status don't come into it.

Mod cut: Orphaned.

[Chowhound]

I don't know what kind of world we're living in where you have to get insulted when someone "under" you hits on you.

Whatever happened to just being polite and friendly and sparing someone's feelings, assuming of course the person isn't being rude to you first.

The shyt people find to be insulted by......

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

I don't know what kind of world we're living in where you have to get insulted when someone "under" you hits on you.

Whatever happened to just being polite and friendly and sparing someone's feelings, assuming of course the person isn't being rude to you first.

The shyt people find to be insulted by......

This.

[Dead Man Walking]

As long as they are straight I like it. I'll give them a show too if they cheer me on enough.

[Ethereal]

Depends on the gender for me.

If an unattractive woman does it, I'd take it as a compliment since I'm already not attracted to women.

If an old goofy (gay) man does it, I'd be mostly insulted and turned off.