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Drop her, you don't deserve her until you grow up and do something about your jealous nature. What woman would want to get caught up in a relationship with a snoop?
Drop her, you don't deserve her until you grow up and do something about your jealous nature. What woman would want to get caught up in a relationship with a snoop?
Drop her, you don't deserve her until you grow up and do something about your jealous nature. What woman would want to get caught up in a relationship with a snoop?
Isn't me that has the growing up to do, it is her, and from the tone of your post possibly you too.
I already dropped her, she admitted her guilt and i told her to take a long hike. it was a bitter break-up but i'm glad i got it over with. she really had no way to wiggle out of it because i had all the evidence.
The way i see it, it's better to find out now how much of a dishonest tramp she is instead of finding out after i marry her.
Isn't me that has the growing up to do, it is her, and from the tone of your post possibly you too.
I already dropped her, she admitted her guilt and i told her to take a long hike. it was a bitter break-up but i'm glad i got it over with. she really had no way to wiggle out of it because i had all the evidence.
The way i see it, it's better to find out now how much of a dishonest tramp she is instead of finding out after i marry her.
I'm glad you split up.
In your next relationship try to be a little more mature and a less desperate. It'll help you out
If you're even thinking about marriage, you have to grow up and be honest. You can't have it both ways.
Tell her everything. Tell her exactly as you wrote it here, and then tell her you want to break up.
You're both lying. Why continue the charade??
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Originally Posted by special mixx
Isn't me that has the growing up to do, it is her, and from the tone of your post possibly you too.
I already dropped her, she admitted her guilt and i told her to take a long hike. it was a bitter break-up but i'm glad i got it over with. she really had no way to wiggle out of it because i had all the evidence.
The way i see it, it's better to find out now how much of a dishonest tramp she is instead of finding out after i marry her.
Better to find out now than after you marry her. Snooping is always wrong, but I think the fact that you felt compelled to snoop signaled something wrong with your relationship. People who are happy and feel secure in their relationships don't snoop.
Install a keylogger. Use wire shark to collect packets and isolate each one, then reconstruct each packet to determine what she's actually saying. GPS location loggers can be purchased for 50 dollars or so. They will track her movement for around a week or so without having to replace the batteries. You can plot her routes using common software, such as google maps
Compile the data and hatch a plan.
You can then disguise your own post on the dating site and lure her in. Invite her to a hotel room and then let the hammer drop ala Arnold Schwarzenegger in True Lies.
Ain't nobody got time for that!
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Originally Posted by *Sixy*
You know what would be REALLY freakin' funny????
She found out that you were snooping in her e-mail and decided to give you something to snoop for. You said yourself there was nothing suspicious all this time...probably until she caught you snooping. Ha...if that's what is going on I would laugh my ass off. Totally something I'd do!
Maybe she's giving you exactly what you were looking for. Go ahead and confront her, I'd love to hear how this ends
Ain't nobody got time for that, either, but at least that's funny.
She's already looking, it's already over. Or, if she wasn't looking (as in, she just never cancelled the membership but did indeed respond when the guy messaged her)...she's still done with you in her mind.
Dump her. If you're talking things like promise rings, you're young. Live life. Not saying it doesn't still suck, but, just move on.
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