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Old 05-15-2014, 08:36 PM
 
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Women get sort of greasy.
This fits with this thread pretty good I guess. I'm doing someone a favor for cost and free practically and they are going to order me around? Nope, that dog doesn't hunt around here. Getting "punked out" by two women in the same day is hard to take as well. Lord give me strength, know what I mean?

That other lady made me so _____ing mad earlier today....what did I do to deserve that? Trying not to have a wreck and dump hazardous materials possibly leading to an explosion and or fire.


Sorry girls...sorry!!


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Old 05-15-2014, 08:38 PM
 
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I think the OP is saying that those "soft lies" gives the reciever a sense of hope and when they realize there is none they take it out on the next person they get with.
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Old 05-15-2014, 08:46 PM
 
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I think the OP is saying that those "soft lies" gives the reciever a sense of hope and when they realize there is none they take it out on the next person they get with.
They don't give me hope. I got "dumped"..."dumped on my ass" as we used to say.

There's always another day.....even though your Dad is mad at you too and won't speak to you.

People have problems they need to work on.....that's all I have to say.
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Old 05-15-2014, 08:49 PM
 
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They don't give me hope. I got "dumped"..."dumped on my ass" as we used to say.

There's always another day.....even though your Dad is mad at you too and won't speak to you.

People have problems they need to work on.....that's all I have to say.
Don't get so wrapped around the axl.
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Old 05-15-2014, 08:55 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Another classic dumping line: "I'm still not over my ex." So convenient, and so untrue unless they really want it to be true.
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Old 05-15-2014, 09:00 PM
 
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They don't give me hope. I got "dumped"..."dumped on my ass" as we used to say.

There's always another day.....even though your Dad is mad at you too and won't speak to you.

People have problems they need to work on.....that's all I have to say.
Keywords: i think. And in some cases its true. Soft break ups are almost patronizing. Essentially saying "i dont think you are mature enough to handle a straight rejection so im gonna give you the kiddie version"
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Old 05-15-2014, 09:00 PM
 
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Another classic dumping line: "I'm still not over my ex." So convenient, and so untrue unless they really want it to be true.
I thought you were going to say "can we still be friends"? lol

I bet that is said almost 100% of the time from everybody.
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Old 05-15-2014, 09:03 PM
 
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I don't know I kind of like the lie...doesn't bother me any...it seems better than the alternative, "I now find you disgusting, boring, and a waste of my time." I don't know, I'll take the lie.
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Old 05-15-2014, 09:06 PM
 
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I don't know I kind of like the lie...doesn't bother me any...it seems better than the alternative, "I now find you disgusting, boring, and a waste of my time." I don't know, I'll take the lie.
Id prefer that. Id like to know why she broke up with me so i can learn from it. Maybe i really am smelly. Or obese. I like self improvement.
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Old 05-15-2014, 09:08 PM
 
Location: NY
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"It's not you, it's me."

"I'm not good enough for you."

"I just don't have time for a relationship right now."

What do these three phrases all have in common? 99% of the time, they are lies, lies, lies.

People usually tell these lies when they are breaking up with us. We are supposed to believe they are telling these lies for our benefit, to spare our feelings.

I say, b***s***.

I think people who tell these lies are only interested in sparing themselves. They tell these lies in hopes that they can avoid having to deal with our hurt feelings. The truth is , they were done with us long before they actually broke up with us. They really don't care about our feelings anymore. They just want out.

Personally, I would rather be dumped honestly than fed lies. How about saying, "I'm just interested anymore," or, "I've met someone else." I'd have a lot more respect for someone who broke up with me that way than by telling lies.

Anyone agree?
Who knows why they tell these lies.

It's like my intelligence is being insulted.................

Those examples were so unoriginal that they only showed me the lack of creative intelligence of the simplistic woman telling them to me.

Want to dump me by lying? Your challenge: Sure, come up with a white lie but come up with one so good that I never heard it before and my bs detector doesn't go off.
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