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Old 05-19-2014, 06:50 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Men don't marry no good women? El oh el.

I didn't say that. I said it's mostly women who marry these dead beats from what I have seen. 'pretty' people period, are likely shallow regardless if man or woman.
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Old 05-19-2014, 06:54 PM
 
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I didn't say that. I said it's mostly women who marry these dead beats from what I have seen. 'pretty' people period, are likely shallow regardless if man or woman.

Men marry deadbeats as often as women do. Un/deremployed, promiscuous, etc. These types of women marry all the time.
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Old 05-19-2014, 06:55 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Men marry deadbeats as often as women do. Un/deremployed, promiscuous, etc. These types of women marry all the time.

Far as I'm concerned they don't 'as often'. beleive what you want though and I'll do the same.
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Old 05-19-2014, 06:57 PM
 
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Far as I'm concerned they don't. beleive what you want though and I'll do the same.

If you choose to believe men don't do it as often, I consider you to be quite clueless. Or intentionally disingenuous.
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Old 05-19-2014, 06:58 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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If you choose to believe men don't do it as often, I consider you to be quite clueless. Or intentionally disingenuous.

either way no where else to go with the convo; you have your beliefs and i have mine.
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Old 05-19-2014, 06:58 PM
 
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why do women say their not about looks, and that looks dont mean much. but when you got outside and see them, their boyfriends are not ugly or even average? i dont get it, i thought they were about personality ?
Warning, I'm A Nice Guy whining ahead...
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Old 05-19-2014, 07:05 PM
 
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Exactly. And "having the advantage" applies to a minority of women. Most women don't have the kind of looks men are willing to pay good money for. Most women have no advantage. They fall outside this scenario altogether.
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Bingo! Women have a huge advantage because most men place a premium on physical attractiveness and are willing to 'pay' for the privilege of having an attractive mate.
It's not that most women receive it. It's that he says most men place that premium in the first place. He's talking about MEN. Even if all the men who chose to do this were after the same woman, women as a whole would "benefit", so to speak (unless that one woman were somehow able to be with ALL those men). A woman doesn't have to be a 10 to manipulate men with her looks, just like I don't have the be the richest guy in the world to use money to manipute women.


Edit: You're trying too hard to make a "not ALL women" argument. He's not just referring to the kind of women that can have everything paid for. But until (and if) he ever comes back tell you otherwise, we're just going to have to agree to disagree.

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Old 05-19-2014, 07:10 PM
 
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why do women say their not about looks, and that looks dont mean much. but when you got outside and see them, their boyfriends are not ugly or even average? i dont get it, i thought they were about personality ?
I've seen plenty of pretty women with not so cute dudes.

Look at Beyonce and Jay Z.
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Old 05-20-2014, 12:34 PM
 
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Exactly. And "having the advantage" applies to a minority of women. Most women don't have the kind of looks men are willing to pay good money for. Most women have no advantage. They fall outside this scenario altogether.
I agree with this. Or rather, I think it's a wash on the particular factor of attractiveness.

What women do have as an advantage, though, is sex...which makes nearly all women attractive to a great variety of men.
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Old 05-20-2014, 12:37 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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What women do have as an advantage, though, is sex...which makes nearly all women attractive to a great variety of men.
No. Men don't approach any random women, just because they have female genitalia. It doesn't work that way. Not by a long shot.
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