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It's like I stopped existing after the last one was born. She always busy with them even when they were perfectly fine. There were always excuses not to be with me. Like I said, I've only stayed this long because I didn't want my kids to be fatherless most of the time.
Did you suggest couples therapy for the two of you, back then? If not, why not? It seems like you haven't really tried to save the relationship.
I personally agree with most on here and feel very sorry for both of you. You seem very cold and detached.
Why don't you suggest a trial separation or move out and let her get used to the idea?
Saying you're not happy is a bit better than throwing the other woman in her face.
Make sure this other woman is just after your assets, no matter what she says. I personally have seen cases where the wife got wind of the husband cheating and very quickly got assets quit claimed to them and in a few cases, the other woman seemed to lose interest very quickly.
Just because I'm determined and know what I want?
I'm not marrying my current girlfriend, don't worry. You don't come this far to make the same mistake again. Everything I have in terms of assets is only going to 3 people and they are my children.
Did you suggest couples therapy for the two of you, back then? If not, why not? It seems like you haven't really tried to save the relationship.
That happened in the very beginning (our children were all born within the first 3 years) and couples sorted out their problems in private, no "couples therapy".
Probably not as "easily" as you'd like to convince yourself.
Why not? She'll be okay financially and has kept the good looks for her age.
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