If A Girl Begs You To Make Love In The Heat Of The Moment, Should You? (single, attracted)

[thrillobyte]

But my question goes to the larger situation of guys who find themselves in this situation--why would a girl hate a guy afterwards for him taking advantage of her emotional vulnerability when she wanted to do it?

I didn't get the correction in quickly enough: the question should have been "why would a girl hate a guy afterwards for him NOT taking advantage of her emotional vulnerability when she wanted to do it?" Sorry.

I guess the verdict is I over-thought the situation.

[hawaiiancoconut]

Depends on the woman, but I'll usually strike when the iron is hot.

[Ace_TX]

here you are years later wondering about it...

a byproduct of being a talented male musician is getting *it* thrown at you

we're not even talking pop-rock-rap music either where its usually alot of 'suspect' women groupies trying to make some kind of comeup

I would think in your genre the women might be better quality and less used used

[mainebrokerman]

no,,,you are suppose to "know" that if a woman says "no" it means "no" and if a woman says "yes" it still means "no"

(like sexual algaebra - two negatives equal a positive and a positive and negative equals rape)

just remember you are a man,,and its all your fault,,, you, are the lowest common denominator in any female equation

[BLAZER PROPHET]

Originally Posted by mainebrokerman

no,,,you are suppose to "know" that if a woman says "no" it means "no" and if a woman says "yes" it still means "no"

(like sexual algaebra - two negatives equal a positive and a positive and negative equals rape)

just remember you are a man,,and its all your fault,,, you, are the lowest common denominator in any female equation

This post makes a lot of sense.

[Raena77]

Good grief.

[The Dissenter]

If she ain't drunk, says yes, and you have protection close by, go for it!

[14Bricks]

[14Bricks]

Originally Posted by North Beach Person

I fear for the younger generation if they're asking a question like this.

Let me get this straight:
A young woman has, for whatever reason, decided she wishes to have sex with you. I assume there were some preliminaries and you're not sure you should close the deal.

That's what the preliminaries were for.

+1 I think years of feminization has emasculated the young men in this country.

[14Bricks]

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