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Old 10-27-2015, 01:06 PM
 
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I would do so and I have done so in the past.

Of course, it takes one to know one.

People who live in glass houses, etc.

Sincerely,

Bay Area "Scarface" Hillbilly.
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Old 10-27-2015, 11:39 PM
 
Location: North Idaho
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I don't have facial scars, so no personal experience, but I've certainly seen lots of women with facial scars that were in long term relationships. One assumes that the scar was not bothering their partner.
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:11 AM
 
Location: western USA
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It really depends on the circumstance. I have no problem with scars on the torso. I was one friends with a girl with CF, who had a transplant and many other surgeries. She was still lovely. Modeled on the side.

But not on her face (she actually wore a mask fort her immune system anyway).
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:17 AM
 
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How much scaring are we talking about? Pics?
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:19 AM
 
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I've been mulling over asking this question somewhere for a while. I was born with a disease that required I have five surgeries on my face over the course of a year, one of which had the unfortunate complication of a graft dying on my face. I had a feeding tube, staples, the whole nine yards. The left over scar is no longer raised and angry like it used to be, and I'm coming to terms with it for the most part--after all, I couldn't help it, it's a disease that had to be taken out or I might die, and most of all, the complications weren't under my control. The scar runs down where the crease of my cheek should be, dips under, and then connects to the side of my mouth, runs under my nose, and one has replaced my cupids bow of my lips. It's not very large, and I'm of the frame of mind that scars are like tattoos, only with better stories.

I was wondering, though, would you date a woman with a visible facial scar? I've never had a problem with men, in fact, I date pretty regularly, but I was wondering if this crosses men's minds at all when they're looking for new prospects?
I don't think this is an issue for the good guys.
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:35 AM
 
Location: Texas
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I have a couple of scars.

Come to think of it, I don't know very many people (men or women) who don't have some scars on their faces.
Childhood cut? Chicken pox scar. Acne scar. Dude, look more closely at people. Most have a scar on their face somewhere.
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Old 10-28-2015, 08:32 AM
 
Location: Western Colorado
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I would say, what happened, then let's get a cheeseburger.
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Old 10-30-2015, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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I've been mulling over asking this question somewhere for a while. I was born with a disease that required I have five surgeries on my face over the course of a year, one of which had the unfortunate complication of a graft dying on my face. I had a feeding tube, staples, the whole nine yards. The left over scar is no longer raised and angry like it used to be, and I'm coming to terms with it for the most part--after all, I couldn't help it, it's a disease that had to be taken out or I might die, and most of all, the complications weren't under my control. The scar runs down where the crease of my cheek should be, dips under, and then connects to the side of my mouth, runs under my nose, and one has replaced my cupids bow of my lips. It's not very large, and I'm of the frame of mind that scars are like tattoos, only with better stories.

I was wondering, though, would you date a woman with a visible facial scar? I've never had a problem with men, in fact, I date pretty regularly, but I was wondering if this crosses men's minds at all when they're looking for new prospects?
awww Don't worry, the right men would not mind, the wrong ones would. And we are not looking for wrong ones here, are we?

My aunt found her second husband on a dating site, she lost all her hair, eyebrow after chemo, he found her attractive.

no worries.

p.s. Talk to a dermatologist or a plastic surgeon, try Ematrix it does wonder for scars. doesn't hurt to ask around. Laser does wonder these days.

best of luck
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Old 11-01-2015, 07:26 PM
 
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Seen this one waitress at a restaurant with a bunch of acne on her face, some of them were turning into scars.. Her face was oily.. But she was actually very pretty.. She had nice facial features and a delicate frame.. I can tell it affected her confidence a bit.. But she was "my type"..
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