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Hey everyone! I just wanted to give an update, that I didn't go to his softball game. I took everyones advice. However, I did feel bad that I just blew him off, cause I am not that type of person. So just on my part, I made my friend Private message him through Facebook, cause that was the only way of contacting him, and I don't have an FB. This is what she said.
"Hey Brian, Nikki wanted me to drop you a quick email, since you don't have your phone yet. She felt bad that she missed your game. She had to go into work cause a person called off at last minute and she had to fill in for her. She doesn't like to blow people off, always sticks to her word and even though I told her it's probably not a big deal, you know Nikki...she makes a big deal out of everything, lol. Hope your team won!"
His reply
"lost both games. im too ****ing good and my teams is too ****ing bad."
"lol i've been getting messages all night saying how ****ing good i am.. feels good hahaha"
Sooo....he completely ignored what my friend said, and I don;t know if he's playing it cool? Or if he is mad? Or if he got awkward about it? Or if he just doesn't care? I have no idea! I don't know how to take that.
That sounds like a normal response from a platonic friend.
If you are not romantically interested, then what do you want? One-sided attention from him to boost your ego?
Try not to take offense to this but he is an older guy with a kid and another romantic interest - don't over think your importance in his life. I'm not sure if its ego or insecurity but girl, just because you make everything so important does not mean others do.
He's just not that into you. You're starting to sound a bit unstable. I'm not saying this to be mean. But really, let it go already. You're going to ruin your summer with this analysis paralysis. If he wants to go out with you he will ask you out. It's really that simple.
Prediction: You're going to run into him somewhere, he will have his arm around a woman, it will be obvious he is seeing her, and you will come running back here asking what that means and all upset about how he supposedly led you on.
The whole thing is just much too silly and junior high. Please, get a hold of yourself already.
Why didn't you send him a private message on FB? Why did the friend need to get involved?
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Originally Posted by burgler09
Yeah, something tells me this isn't even real.
What kind of adult can't do this stuff on her own? Getting a friend to message someone for her? I don't buy it, no one is that lame.
She said she doesn't have Facebook and looking at the friend's message, he doesn't have a phone right now.
OP, his response is juvenile. My guess is that he just isn't that into you otherwise he would have made some sort of comment as to why you weren't at the game.
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