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Just because I kissed him, it doesn't mean I abide by his behavior. We've only been on two dates and he's already being critical ...
Our chemistry is great, but these little words of his make me second-guess my initial impression. I am now wary of what's to come!
There's a fine line between being attracted and allowing someone to disturb your inner peace. If I were okay with his behavior, I wouldn't have posted an entire thread about him.
Your chemistry is not great , you are simply each horny.
I went on two dates with a guy and I'm slightly confused at the moment.
He was a true gentleman on the first date. He told me he absolutely enjoyed our conversations and I'm the first girl he's truly clicked with in a long time. He said my brains definitely made an impression on him. We spent that entire day together so I guess he got a sense of who I am. However, he called me "uptight" and said I overthink everything (because I felt uncomfortable he paid on our date and told him I'd prefer to pay).
Second date was an entire different story.
First of all, he thought I was making some things up to sound smart (i.e: Kazakhstan, he thought I was making this country up). Then, he was like "Don't roll your eyes, I don't like it" (mind you, he was talking about Frozen over and over again). Then we talked about museums and I said some of them are boring, he then rolled his eyes and told me I'm not knowledgeable at all (says the guy who's never been out of the US and who's never been to college).
Then he criticized me for liking movies about history, religion or political events. He said anime and 3D movies are far better and that I'm quite boring for liking movies "that make you think" (his words). To each their own in my opinion.
Finally, the worst part of it all ... He dared calling me SLOW because I didn't finish my drink as quickly as he did his (the guy was kissing me the entire time, I barely had room to breathe. How was I supposed to finish that stupid drink?). He was like "are you always so slow"? Yeah, I had worked all day and hadn't gotten a day off in about 10 days, so I was extremely tired. It happens.
Yet, he had the guts to repeat multiple times: "I think you're extremely hot" but didn't bother paying attention to what I was saying and kept criticizing me all night.
Am I in the wrong for thinking he's slightly disrespectful?
He's trying to make you qualify yourself to him. He's trying to be the one with the emotional leverage.
He sounds like an idiot who has a good side helping of personality disorder. And yes, he was undermining you. He would do that consistently throughout any relationship or sustained contact with him because it makes him feel powerful and stronger than the weakling he is.
Frankly he has all the hallmarks of an abuser.
Tell him you're not interested, shut him down and have no further contact.
He sounds like an idiot who has a good side helping of personality disorder. And yes, he was undermining you. He would do that consistently throughout any relationship or sustained contact with him because it makes him feel powerful and stronger than the weakling he is.
Frankly he has all the hallmarks of an abuser.
Tell him you're not interested, shut him down and have no further contact.
I'm a bit confused as to how this question is even asked. If someone did this to me I'd end the date instantly.
On top of that, date 2 and the OP is already kissing the whole time? Seems like part of this is her fault for putting out a not so good image.
Yep. A scumbag thug badboy. Probably wets more panties than the laundry room of an all-girls college and pulls more tail than most men can even imagine.
Yep. A scumbag thug badboy. Probably wets more panties than the laundry room of an all-girls college and pulls more tail than most men can even imagine.
I don't think so! He's a weirdo using PUA tactics.
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, you are simply each horny.
