Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 05-22-2014, 11:29 AM
 
Location: TX
6,486 posts, read 6,388,858 times
Reputation: 2628

Advertisements

Somebody needs to be a pal to this guy and clue him in:

He's gay.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 05-22-2014, 11:30 AM
 
Location: Concord, California
943 posts, read 1,004,457 times
Reputation: 3259
Quote:
Originally Posted by 49ersfan27 View Post
I'm not sure. I haven't felt like he did. Sure I have been upset and said things about relationships that I don't mean. I even have a female friend now who is showing me new things that I never thought of doing. That's where we are different.
Being in a relationship can be intimidating like nothing else, full of reasons to walk away. If you find someone you really click with and like being with and you agree on the responsibilities of relationship, and want to make it last, then treasure it...sounds like you are starting to go there with your friend, and that's good.
I think a lot of guys may get scared of the REAL, of the responsibility part.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-22-2014, 11:33 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
10,216 posts, read 8,306,679 times
Reputation: 8628
Quote:
Originally Posted by foclampt View Post
Being in a relationship can be intimidating like nothing else, full of reasons to walk away. If you find someone you really click with and like being with and you agree on the responsibilities of relationship, and want to make it last, then treasure it...sounds like you are starting to go there with your friend, and that's good.
I think a lot of guys may get scared of the REAL, of the responsibility part.
There was a time I was uncomfortable around her because she's attractive and I almost ended the friendship. I'm glad I didn't.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-22-2014, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Concord, California
943 posts, read 1,004,457 times
Reputation: 3259
I'm glad you didn't either, sounds like you really like her.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-22-2014, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
16,960 posts, read 17,342,198 times
Reputation: 30258
Quote:
Originally Posted by JustJulia View Post
Do you picture yourself pouring a pitcher of beer on a woman?

He's too gentleman for that. He rather leave in the middle of a dinner before showering her with beer, Lol

Right, Raj?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-22-2014, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
10,216 posts, read 8,306,679 times
Reputation: 8628
Quote:
Originally Posted by foclampt View Post
I'm glad you didn't either, sounds like you really like her.
To be honest, I do. She hangs out with the rest of my friends. They like her as well.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-22-2014, 11:40 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
10,216 posts, read 8,306,679 times
Reputation: 8628
Quote:
Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut View Post
He's too gentleman for that. He rather leave in her the middle of a dinner before showering her with beer, Lol

Right, Raj?
That was wrong. I have apologized to that woman because I wouldn't want someone doing that to me.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-22-2014, 11:40 AM
 
Location: Concord, California
943 posts, read 1,004,457 times
Reputation: 3259
So, have you thought about taking the next step? You know, going steady? Being committed?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-22-2014, 11:42 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
16,960 posts, read 17,342,198 times
Reputation: 30258
Quote:
Originally Posted by 49ersfan27 View Post
That was wrong. I have apologized to that woman because I wouldn't want someone doing that to me.
Just giving you a hard time, brah. Lol
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 05-22-2014, 11:44 AM
 
2,260 posts, read 1,137,942 times
Reputation: 2837
Sounds to me like this guy is the type that tries to talk about academic ultra high intellect subject matter with women, but of course the ones he chooses cant hang with him in that regard, and thats how he thinks hes over qualified. So if he thinks his knowledge is the only qualification, but not being able to relate to normal conversation isnt, then hes not as smart as he thinks.

I dont believe for one second that he thinks he doesnt need company. He probably doesnt really need validation from anyone if he thinks no one is qualified to validate him.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 05:40 PM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top