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Old 05-22-2014, 04:25 PM
 
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Originally Posted by cindersslipper View Post
You could just do what millions of men have done over the ages, turn a blind eye and TAKE him as your son, regardless of biology.
I don't think I've ever seen the concept of male disposability brought into such sharp relief as on this thread.

I hope all you lurker men out there are paying close attention to how today's empowered, independent women see you: walking wallets with a penis attached. Now shut up and write that child support check.

 
Old 05-22-2014, 04:27 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Kyle43 View Post
I'm sure the "Man Up" shaming language will start in 3......2.......1........
You missed it...cinderslipper already said it above.
 
Old 05-22-2014, 04:29 PM
 
Location: Jackson Heights Queens NYC
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Your a sucker my friend. Get that kid tested quick. Tell your kids what a ***** your wife is if the test comes out bad. Then they will turn on her and you will get custody one way or another.
 
Old 05-22-2014, 04:37 PM
 
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Originally Posted by GoldTigeer View Post
Of course I'm already attached to the little boy but I still feel like it's something I should clarify now.

What would you say?
"The" little boy? you are already convinced he's not yours and probably were for the last 2 years. Why don't you just cut ties and say the hell with it regardless of the test results.

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Originally Posted by VinceShamWow View Post
It's callous and cruel on the part of the cheating, lying, mother, not the guy who isn't his biological father. The kid is 2, he'll never even remember.

The female responses here are absolutely incredible.
As is the male response. He said nothing about cheating and lying in his post however you all are quick to jump on that bandwagon.

case in point the poster below who's making all kinds of assumptions.

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Maybe she should have thought of that before cuckolding him.
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Originally Posted by Kyle43 View Post
How about that an innocent man doesn't deserve to be punished for this?

Why doesn't anyone care about that?
 
Old 05-22-2014, 04:40 PM
 
Location: Terra
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Originally Posted by fleetiebelle View Post
The child may not turn out to be biologically his son, but for two years the OP has loved and cared for this child, and the child loves and cares for him. He is the only father this child has known. It would be callous and cruel to reject the child to punish the mother.
BS. It's callous and cruel to take responsibility for another 16 years for a kid that's not his that he was tricked into caring for. The kid is only 2, they won't remember anything about the "dad".
 
Old 05-22-2014, 04:42 PM
 
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Originally Posted by JustJulia View Post
Did you see my question? What do you plan to do about your relationship with the boy? Will you continue to see him, or will you see your children without their brother?
I would see the children without their brother. His real father should take care of him.
 
Old 05-22-2014, 04:43 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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There are ways to care for and be involved with a child besides writing a check.

Editing: Never mind, I see the OP answered. If he is indeed the boy's father, I hope he can resume his feelings of love and attachment.
 
Old 05-22-2014, 04:44 PM
 
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Do it man.

Take a cheek swap.

Pull out a piece of hair.

Get that DNA test!
 
Old 05-22-2014, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Terra
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I'm flabbergasted and beyond belief at the female responses in this thread. Clearly women here have no issues banging some other guy that's not with them, bearing the bastard child and tricking the husband into raising them.
 
Old 05-22-2014, 04:46 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I'm flabbergasted and beyond belief at the female responses in this thread. Clearly women here have no issues banging some other guy that's not with them, bearing the bastard child and tricking the husband into raising them.
Don't be absurd.
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