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Old 05-24-2014, 05:13 PM
 
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For men and women: Have you ever gotten unwanted attention to the point where it made you feel uncomfortable, whether you're married, in a LTR, single and not looking, just shy and not the flirty type or just uninterested because they weren't your type? If someone is giving you unwanted attention, how do you discourage them?
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Old 05-24-2014, 05:33 PM
 
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I like all attention


Even old granny cougar attention. I like it all.


Live young, live care free. Soak it up in the moment because one day you'll get no attention and reminisce the days when it was o-so burdensome
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Old 05-24-2014, 05:35 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I get unwanted attention for having abnormally large breasts. I just cover them up usually but some still act like they've never seen large breasted women. I give them the death stare.
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Old 05-24-2014, 05:43 PM
 
Location: Squirrel Hill PA
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I get unwanted attention for having abnormally large breasts. I just cover them up usually but some still act like they've never seen large breasted women. I give them the death stare.
There is nothing abnormal about the size of your chest if it is what you have naturally and it is no excuse for males to behave like fools and treat you without respect. I also get unwanted attention due to my chest size. I have had some really bizarre experiences including random men showing up on my front door step asking for "dates" and one guy who stalked me, sent me letters and found me on Facebook. I just seem to attract weirdos. My experiences have taught me that the best thing to do is ignore them. Don't respond. Don't open the door or give them any opening. DO NOT be polite about declining. They take it as encouragement if you are even a little bit nice about it.
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Old 05-24-2014, 05:44 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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I usually just walk really fast and have music in my ears so I can't hear them talking to me.

Other than that I ignore them.

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Old 05-24-2014, 05:47 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Politely, with a few choice words.
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Old 05-24-2014, 05:47 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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There is nothing abnormal about the size of your chest if it is what you have naturally and it is no excuse for males to behave like fools and treat you without respect. I also get unwanted attention due to my chest size. I have had some really bizarre experiences including random men showing up on my front door step asking for "dates" and one guy who stalked me, sent me letters and found me on Facebook. I just seem to attract weirdos. My experiences have taught me that the best thing to do is ignore them. Don't respond. Don't open the door or give them any opening. DO NOT be polite about declining. They take it as encouragement if you are even a little bit nice about it.

do you notice that men tend to think you are more 'sexual' because of having large breasts? It's a really weird connection that they make from my experience and I do think they attract the wrong kind of attention. I think they try and make you feel embarrassed about them or something.
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Old 05-24-2014, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Freaked out from stalkers.Then I stalk them back.
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Old 05-24-2014, 05:50 PM
 
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Freaked out from stalkers.Then I stalk them back.
Does that explain the roses I got on my doorstep the other day?
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Old 05-24-2014, 05:53 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Does that explain the roses I got on my doorstep the other day?
Oh good you got them.
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