How do I kindly tell someone it's not a good idea to meet after talking for a while online? (boyfriend, woman)

[Passion Fruit]

It's not worth it IMO.

I'm sure she's told the same story to many men and you don't owe her anything... unless you wanna get her attached and put up with her issues.

Plus she's waaaay to easy and psycho-- who knows what she has (if you get what I'm saying)

[Canada Boy]

Originally Posted by oh-eve

After all her crying and complaining you deserve a little fun.

Go there, bang the shyte out of her and then block her number.

She might cry but she cries anyway, so ...?

that's what i was thinking. until she cries rape.

[noghre111]

It will be wise to only meet with her in public (it's safer that way).. but since she wants to have s*x, It's not appropriate..

In any case, definitely do NOT go that island with her lol

[bored chick]

Sounds like "Fatal Attraction". Run!!!!

[jillabean]

1) Should I meet her

No! Trust me on this. I've made the mistake with the male equivalent. Stay away from the crazies!

2) If not, how can I be kind about it?

Just tell her something like, "It's been interesting chatting with you, but I don't feel that we are a match. Good luck with your search!" And then block her right away and don't worry about it. Her emotional issues aren't your problem.

[JoeCollege]

Do you think you are obligated to meet someone because you have texted with this person for two days?

[Canada Boy]

My gut says no, but my you know what says yes

[JoeCollege]

So you just like drama, apparently.

[CarbonCountyLiving]

Originally Posted by oh-eve

After all her crying and complaining you deserve a little fun.

Go there, bang the shyte out of her and then block her number.

She might cry but she cries anyway, so ...?

Ha! This is awful but hilarious.

Definitely block her number but I wouldn't go there. Sex is better when there is no risk of fatality.

[CarbonCountyLiving]

Originally Posted by Canada Boy

How do I do this?
I'm 25 m, she's 40 f. We "met" on a dating site.

We have only been talking for 2 days, but aside from her always texting me:

• She's told me she's lonely
• She cries every day
• How nervous she is to meet me
• Cried to me on the phone about how attached she is to me already
• How much she hates her ex
• How she wants to escape with me to a private island (she wasn't joking)
• How she wishes I was older
• How she met a guy last month 3000 miles away, flew down to meet him, had sex, flew back, never saw him again
• She's talking to another guy 2000 miles away online and is in love with him
• Has sent me dirty pictures
• Has straight up told me she wants to have sex with me
• Invited me over (address included) for a massage tonight

I would feel really ****ty if I just had sex with her and never contacted her again, plus it's not healthy for her either.

Problem is we've been talking a lot, and I've given her no indication I don't want to meet.

So, two questions:

1) Should I meet her
2) If not, how can I be kind about it?

Also, WHAT is up with young guys and older women. I swear I get ten messages a day from guys who are just 21. Sorry but I already dated in your age group and it wasn't fun then either.