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Is anyone else like this? My ideal "romantic" relationship is purely a FWB situation. I have no interest in standard relationships. I do consider myself to have aspergers and AvPD (Avoidance personality disorder). Unfortunately I'm stuck in a somewhat conservative small town so it's difficult to find women interested in this arrangement. I have no interest in going on a date or "hanging out" and purely just want to laid. I am a 36 year old male virgin who decided to take the plunge with dating and relationships this year and quickly found out it has no appeal to me. I have a very difficult time forming relationships/relating to people but the sexual urges persist.
Perhaps using the services of escorts to satisfy my needs would be better?
Is anyone else like this? My ideal "romantic" relationship is purely a FWB situation. I have no interest in standard relationships. I do consider myself to have aspergers and AvPD (Avoidance personality disorder). Unfortunately I'm stuck in a somewhat conservative small town so it's difficult to find women interested in this arrangement. I have no interest in going on a date or "hanging out" and purely just want to laid. I am a 36 year old male virgin who decided to take the plunge with dating and relationships this year and quickly found out it has no appeal to me.
Perhaps using the services of escorts to satisfy my needs would be better?
First, have you been diagnosed by a qualified Physician or have you diagnosed yourself?
Second, if you want to pay for sex then go ahead and pay for sex, it is your life, your choice, your money and no one is going to stop you. Well, a lot of posters on this forum won't try to talk you out of it. Just be safe, use a condom, don't pay too much, have fun and I hope you find all you are looking for with this arrangement.
36 year old virgin and all you want to do is have sex? I guess your concept of dating and relationships is not working out for you. Since it is only sex that you want and you can not seem to pull that off then maybe a compromise is something that you need to settle for. Get married so you can have sex,
36 year old virgin and all you want to do is have sex? I guess your concept of dating and relationships is not working out for you. Since it is only sex that you want and you can not seem to pull that off then maybe a compromise is something that you need to settle for. Get married so you can have sex,
Marriage doesn't guarantee sex and the OP doesn't want a wife.
If that is truly what you want then you can go ahead and do it.
I am a bit too emotional and sensitive to just have sex with someone I have no romantic feelings for. I don't want to put myself through that. I go through enough emotional pain as it is when I DO like someone.
First, have you been diagnosed by a qualified Physician or have you diagnosed yourself?
Second, if you want to pay for sex then go ahead and pay for sex, it is your life, your choice, your money and no one is going to stop you. Well, a lot of posters on this forum won't try to talk you out of it. Just be safe, use a condom, don't pay too much, have fun and I hope you find all you are looking for with this arrangement.
No, I am not officially diagnosed but I'm pretty sure I have it. All my life I have felt "off" around people. I only have one friend, and he is 2,000+ miles away and is a diagnosed aspie. I find that I cannot relate to people on a emotional level which is why traditional dating fails. I just feel that I should use escorts instead of trying to gain FWB relationships with women which can potentially lead to problems. A few days ago I met a woman who thought I was attractive and wanted to portake in sexual relations but later bailed out claiming "emotional" issues. I no patience or time for that.
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Originally Posted by Auraliea
If that is truly what you want then you can go ahead and do it.
I am a bit too emotional and sensitive to just have sex with someone I have no romantic feelings for. I don't want to put myself through that. I go through enough emotional pain as it is when I DO like someone.
I am not emotional or sensitive so I cannot go the traditional relationship route.
No, I am not officially diagnosed but I'm pretty sure I have it. All my life I have felt "off" around people. I only have one friend, and he is 2,000+ miles away and is a diagnosed aspie. I find that I cannot relate to people on a emotional level which is why traditional dating fails. I just feel that I should use escorts instead of trying to gain FWB relationships with women which can potentially lead to problems.
Get yourself officially diagnosed by a Physician and see if there are any treatments available that will possibly help you along.
As far as the escorts go, if you are that set on using them then get off of the computer and go find yourself an escort and get to using them.
i have a hard time understanding how a 36 year old virgin can be only interested in sex.
I don't think this is a mental problem as much as it is the result of complete inexperience.
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