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How do I convince my female friend that meeting guys online who live 2000 miles away after only talking for a month is a bad idea?
She meets these guys on OKCupid and the like, is excited that they want something long term, flies to their city (or they come to her) for a weekend, have sex, and then she hardly sees them again.
Then she cries to me that she is lonely and wants a relationship with someone.
It just seems unhealthy and dangerous to me, but I can't really say why. I can't quite articulate why it's any different to meeting a guy in her same city.
Whether it is weird to you or not it is her decision and you cannot change anything for her, she has to do it herself.
If you want to lessen the amount of time you have to listen to her complaining about the scenario over and over; when she starts complaining about the last guy who did that to her tell her you don't want to hear it. If she continues change the subject, if she continues again hang up or leave.
Whether it is weird to you or not it is her decision and you cannot change anything for her, she has to do it herself.
If you want to lessen the amount of time you have to listen to her complaining about the scenario over and over; when she starts complaining about the last guy who did that to her tell her you don't want to hear it. If she continues change the subject, if she continues again hang up or leave.
How do I convince my female friend that meeting guys online who live 2000 miles away after only talking for a month is a bad idea?
She meets these guys on OKCupid and the like, is excited that they want something long term, flies to their city (or they come to her) for a weekend, have sex, and then she hardly sees them again.
Then she cries to me that she is lonely and wants a relationship with someone.
It just seems unhealthy and dangerous to me, but I can't really say why. I can't quite articulate why it's any different to meeting a guy in her same city.
Any help? Maybe I'm overreacting.
Stop being her tissue.
She's a big girl and will have to figure this out on her own.
She has sex with virtual strangers who live 2000 miles away and fly in for a quickie?
That is weird.
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