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If the person you're dating is actively searching for a casual sex encounter on a website specifically made for this, would that be a turn off in the early dating process?
Last edited by LostinPhilly; 06-01-2014 at 03:55 PM..
Of course. He's obviously planning to cheat, and probably already has, so I couldn't trust him. I wouldn't wanna be with a cheater, and someone I couldn't trust.
Shows how little the guy I am with actually cares.
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No, but by dating I'm talking about the "early" process.
Meaning your not exclusive? If we are not exclusive I don't care.
Also, I wouldn't be sleeping with them.
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If we were exclusive then yes he would be dumped. If it was in the early stages before a commitment then I have no business telling them what to do. However I generally never dated men who were looking for a hookup.
You can date and until or unless it's exclusive (and this has to be explicitly agreed upon by both of you), then you should assume that they will be out there seeing others. If their being on a hookup site is bothersome, then don't continue to date them. You're not going to change them so don't even try. Just observe and if you don't feel cherished and want something different then find others to date and leave that person behind to find their path.
If the person you're dating is actively searching for a casual sex encounter on a website specifically made for this, would that be a turn off in the early dating process?
Yeah, it'd be a turn off, but I wouldn't have agreed to meet anyone who made it clear that he was looking for casual sex...unless you happened to find out on your own.
If there was one date and I didn't get any kind of indication that she's attracted to me and willing to have sex, she gets nexted. If she's on one of those sites, and I didn't get ANYTHING on the first date, she thinks I'm a chump that's going to bankroll her dinners and whatnot.
That ain't happening.
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