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Old 06-17-2014, 11:56 PM
 
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My ex (let's call him Jack) and I broke up but decided we still wanted to stay friends. We talked a bunch after the break up until his phone broke one day. He messaged me and a few other friends on Facebook asking for our #'s because the phone company couldn't transfer his contacts. I messaged him my number after reading his message. He never texted me.

Since I didn't know if he changed his # when he got his new phone, I didn't text him either. I instead messaged him on Facebook. He saw the messages, but never responded to any of them. We haven't talked in almost a week.

A few days ago my friend and I were talking about him. I found out he hadn't changed his # and she'd told me she'd texted him earlier saying "Hey Jack!" and the first thing he texted back to her was asking "Is this Sara (me)?" We'd had a good laugh about it before she said she had to go to bed, and we bid "goodnight" to each other.

Should this mean anything to me? Did he miss talking to me?
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Old 06-18-2014, 12:09 AM
 
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I would say it means he doesn't want to talk to you, he wants to go no contact (on his terms). He probably does miss talking to you. People usually take this extreme measure of going no contact, especially without word, because it will be hard to do and they will miss you. They want to make it as easy as possible for them to succeed in severing things with you because they think that is the best thing for you both.
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Old 06-18-2014, 12:29 AM
 
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You guys sound young like he needs to sow his oats before he considers marriage with you.

And, yes he probably misses you but to the depth that you miss him? I'd look at his actions as a clearer indicator.
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Old 06-18-2014, 05:52 AM
 
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May be possible he miss talking to you but, if he really wants to talk with you then why didn't he reply on facebook.. well If you want to talk with him and you know that he will like to talk with you then text him, otherwise wait for his text and see dose he really want to stay friend and keep in touch with you or not.. because after all he is your ex now..
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Old 06-18-2014, 02:46 PM
 
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My ex (let's call him Jack) and I broke up but decided we still wanted to stay friends. We talked a bunch after the break up until his phone broke one day. He messaged me and a few other friends on Facebook asking for our #'s because the phone company couldn't transfer his contacts. I messaged him my number after reading his message. He never texted me.

Since I didn't know if he changed his # when he got his new phone, I didn't text him either. I instead messaged him on Facebook. He saw the messages, but never responded to any of them. We haven't talked in almost a week.

A few days ago my friend and I were talking about him. I found out he hadn't changed his # and she'd told me she'd texted him earlier saying "Hey Jack!" and the first thing he texted back to her was asking "Is this Sara (me)?" We'd had a good laugh about it before she said she had to go to bed, and we bid "goodnight" to each other.

Should this mean anything to me? Did he miss talking to me?
No.

He doesn't want to talk to you.

The broken phone, no returned texted or FB messages weren't enough for ya?

Let it go.
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