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What??? Are you telling me that you'd stay married to a woman who was cheating on you? Perhaps you're one of those men who suffer no jealousy. There are men like that. Like those men that enjoy swinging - you know, you like to share your wife, and your wife likes to share you, that kind of thing.
Me, I would never stay with a cheating man. 1 incident and he gets the Doc Maarten boot firmly planted on his sorry behind. In fact, just 1 appearance of impropriety and he'd get the boot. Second chances are not a chapter in my book.
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Originally Posted by Ace_TX
cheating smyeating!
bleh...
there are actually women out there that think that a man "cheating" is means for divorce, lol
after all they went through to get married, whether is was trickery or by force via ultimatums and bully tactics they have the nerve...smh
there are even women married to pro athletes that expect them to be faithful, lmao are they forreal?
i remember i was messing with this hispanic chick when i was like 20, she was just a jump off she knew from the beginning that i had a woman and she used to have the nerve to tell me not to 'cheat' on her...omg females are hilarious
This story sounds very close to a thread that was started a month or so ago.
I'll have to find it.
I was thinking the exact same thing
To answer the question though - as others have already stated, sure women cared - they just had fewer options to actually DO anything about it when a husband cheated. This isn't rocket science....
You also have to keep in mind that sex back then was often first and foremost about procreating. It was often done in under 15 minutes in the missionary position. Men would hear of more adventurous women out there and when they came along, they jumped. There were no sexual discussions like we have today to pressure couples into trying new things and keeping stuff interesting. I remember one time a lady in her 70's was in a room of younger women and somehow the topic of oral sex came up. We all knew her and her husband for years, family friend. She sat there and listened and then blurted out, "how on God's green earth could you ladies ever put that disgusting thing in your mouth." The room fell silent and this wave of sorrow towards her husband ensued by me. I thought, "that poor ole SOB"
And this was the mentality of lots of women from the WW2 era. It was a chore to be done, not much more.
there are actually women out there that think that a man "cheating" is means for divorce, lol
after all they went through to get married, whether is was trickery or by force via ultimatums and bully tactics they have the nerve...smh
there are even women married to pro athletes that expect them to be faithful, lmao are they forreal?
i remember i was messing with this hispanic chick when i was like 20, she was just a jump off she knew from the beginning that i had a woman and she used to have the nerve to tell me not to 'cheat' on her...omg females are hilarious
My grandparents have been married for 62 years. My grandfather had two out of wedlock children from affairs and my grandmother didn't make a scandal. Sure divorce was not really an option because she was/is religious and also didn't work. But didn't really make a spectacle when he told her about the children.
She said she didn't even considered divorce and they seem to have grown closer over the years. She had a stroke a few months ago, doesn't speak and is either in a bed or the wheelchair. He's always very attentive with her.
Did women in the past were more forgiving and didn't care as much?
Economically, women couldn't make it. A few decades ago, a degreed women would peak at secretary, and she had best "play nice" with the boss, without protesting.
It was an atmostphere of coercion, not acceptence.
You also have to keep in mind that sex back then was often first and foremost about procreating. It was often done in under 15 minutes in the missionary position. Men would hear of more adventurous women out there and when they came along, they jumped. There were no sexual discussions like we have today to pressure couples into trying new things and keeping stuff interesting. I remember one time a lady in her 70's was in a room of younger women and somehow the topic of oral sex came up. We all knew her and her husband for years, family friend. She sat there and listened and then blurted out, "how on God's green earth could you ladies ever put that disgusting thing in your mouth." The room fell silent and this wave of sorrow towards her husband ensued by me. I thought, "that poor ole SOB"
And this was the mentality of lots of women from the WW2 era. It was a chore to be done, not much more.
Oh please. Every generation thinks they invented sex, and there's no way their grandparents ever did *this* or *that* - nope, not my grandma!
It's amazing the number of guys who will claim guys aren't smart or strong. The guys who actually ARE smart and strong come across that way.
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What??? Are you telling me that you'd stay married to a woman who was cheating on you? Perhaps you're one of those men who suffer no jealousy. There are men like that. Like those men that enjoy swinging - you know, you like to share your wife, and your wife likes to share you, that kind of thing.
Me, I would never stay with a cheating man. 1 incident and he gets the Doc Maarten boot firmly planted on his sorry behind. In fact, just 1 appearance of impropriety and he'd get the boot. Second chances are not a chapter in my book.
Me neither. The two reasons I would divorce would be infidelity or abuse. He has sex outside of marriage? then he wont have a marriage.
I remember one time a lady in her 70's was in a room of younger women and somehow the topic of oral sex came up. We all knew her and her husband for years, family friend. She sat there and listened and then blurted out, "how on God's green earth could you ladies ever put that disgusting thing in your mouth." The room fell silent and this wave of sorrow towards her husband ensued by me. I thought, "that poor ole SOB"
If we're making conjectures, it's just as likely that this woman's husband's idea of sex involved him grunting in her ear for five minutes and rolling over and snoring. The lady probably never had an orgasm in her life. Poor thing.
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