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Old 06-17-2014, 04:15 PM
 
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I quit reading at "the girlfriend is below him" in whatever status followed that statement.

Basically, stay out of his life, his business and his girlfriends.

Goodness knows there is no way you should be expected to speak with let alone be in the same room with someone who is below him in status.......
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Old 06-17-2014, 06:59 PM
 
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I have a good friend that went through a similiar situation with a chick.

She emptied his bank account and made his life miserable for 5 years.

They are in the middle of a divorce.

He is still recovering.
You have been about the only person here that have got it right. This happens all the time. Our fear is that he will marry her, have children, and she will leave the country with my grandsons/daughters, and we never seen them again. Besides he stands to inherit from me over a million dollars, and she knows this.

I know all about letting him make his own decisions, he asked for advice and I have given him all my thoughts. But, she is very smart: She feeds him lots of sex and food=got him hooked.
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Old 06-17-2014, 07:00 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I know all about letting him make his own decisions, he asked for advice and I have given him all my thoughts. But, she is very smart: She feeds him lots of sex and food=got him hooked.
In that case, your grandson is an idiot, and you can't save him from himself. He'll have to learn by his own mistakes.
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Old 06-17-2014, 07:26 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You have been about the only person here that have got it right. This happens all the time. Our fear is that he will marry her, have children, and she will leave the country with my grandsons/daughters, and we never seen them again. Besides he stands to inherit from me over a million dollars, and she knows this.

I know all about letting him make his own decisions, he asked for advice and I have given him all my thoughts. But, she is very smart: She feeds him lots of sex and food=got him hooked.
LOL

I KNEW this would be the one post you would pay attention to.

Look, your grandson is 29 years old!! How many kids did you already have at 29??

Back up out of your family's business. So many of your posts are gossip about your relatives' lives. Talk about a reflected sense of self. You're projecting your own prejudices on this kid, who is not going to listen to you.

Anything you say against her will push him toward her. Count on that.
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Old 06-18-2014, 01:22 PM
 
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She feeds him lots of sex and food=got him hooked.
Yeah, you are a creepy grandpa. Stop worrying about your grandson's sex life.
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Old 06-18-2014, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Besides he stands to inherit from me over a million dollars, and she knows this.

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But, she is very smart: She feeds him lots of sex and food=got him hooked.
^^ That's probably one of the most disturbing comments I've ever read on C-D, especially by a GRANDPARENT.
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Old 06-18-2014, 01:32 PM
 
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Besides he stands to inherit from me over a million dollars, and she knows this.
Why would he inherit anything from you? Don't you have kids to leave your estate to?
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Old 06-18-2014, 01:40 PM
 
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Why would he inherit anything from you? Don't you have kids to leave your estate to?
And OP, are you planning to die in the next 20 years? If she sticks with him until you kick it, she deserves her cut.
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Old 06-18-2014, 01:46 PM
 
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Why would he inherit anything from you? Don't you have kids to leave your estate to?
Yes, gramps mentioned a mom and dad in the OP. Strange story.

In other posts OP is a woman.
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Old 06-18-2014, 01:47 PM
 
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Yes, gramps mentioned a mom and dad in the OP. Strange story.
Well, not to mention the fact that if there's a grandson, obviously, there's a son or daughter, lol! OP isn't too swift. S/he should probably be off to summer camp sometime soon...
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