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Old 06-27-2014, 10:59 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Try before you buy is not just for the consumer of goods. Knowing tacoman has a propensity for heavy drinking I'd be wanting to know that old thing still works before I got married.
It would suck to find out you married a limp bizkit or a half min man.
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Old 06-27-2014, 11:20 AM
 
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It would suck to find out you married a limp bizkit or a half min man.
I just couldn't imagine it. How utterly depressing would that be, you've spent all that money on a nice wedding only to get a divorce a month later. Or worse, you decide to just live a sex starved existence. What a nightmare.
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Old 06-27-2014, 11:36 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I just couldn't imagine it. How utterly depressing would that be, you've spent all that money on a nice wedding only to get a divorce a month later. Or worse, you decide to just live a sex starved existence. What a nightmare.

The number of people that had lousy sex lives for decades or even their entire lives because they waited and when it happened they didn't know it should be any better must be truly staggering. It's so sad.
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Old 06-27-2014, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Or find out that he really, really NEEDS if for you to dress up as an anime, or 6 in stilettos on his windpipe, or wants to wear diapers....... prefers men....

Sex is such a HUGE part of regular healthy marriages I can't just imagine two deciding to leave that part unknown. You can TALK about it, but that ain't the same. It's also one of the ways to bond.
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Old 06-27-2014, 11:40 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Or find out that he really, really NEEDS if for you to dress up as an anime, or 6 in stilettos on his windpipe, or wants to wear diapers....... prefers men....

Hey hey,,, marriage is about compromise
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Old 06-27-2014, 11:45 AM
 
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I think the next girl that a dead fish in bed and unwilling to try anything normal noting too freaky i am going to have to tell her we should just be friends.
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Old 06-27-2014, 12:03 PM
 
Location: NY
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My wife and I were intimate well before we were married (or engaged). That shows my own position on it. For everyone else... to each their own.
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Old 06-27-2014, 01:07 PM
 
Location: USA
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"Sex before marriage versus waiting for marriage"

In this day and age with marriage on the decline its not a serious question for most people.
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Old 06-27-2014, 01:25 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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Well, she has said they've done other stuff, when the alcohol wasn't grounding the boat... so to speak.
She probably let him hold her hand & carry her purse......
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