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Agree~ I think to many forget what marriages is about, (US) not me... If something I was doing made my spouse feel insecure, yes I stop! Friends, night clubs etc, etc, etc ....Are not wroth it!
Absolutely. The idea that just because someone is married/together they have to do everything together all the time has been the cause of many break ups.
Absolutely. The idea that just because someone is married/together they have to do everything together all the time has been the cause of many break ups.
The OP never said anything about having to do everything together. He said he's not comfortable with his wife going to a singles club with her single friends, and would prefer she go to other types of clubs and venues.
The OP never said anything about having to do everything together. He said he's not comfortable with his wife going to a singles club with her single friends, and would prefer she go to other types of clubs and venues.
Sorry, didn't read the whole thread, just the title.
Absolutely. The idea that just because someone is married/together they have to do everything together all the time has been the cause of many break ups.
My husband and I do many things separate outside of each other, yes that healthy and a need... Plus that wasn't the point of this thread.... The person wasn't comfortable with his wife going to night clubs for whatever reason, maybe he be ok with a coffee shop etc...There comes a point you just don't do things that causes harm to the relationship, because at the end of the day it comes down to the two of you...
My own husband likes me to call him when I get to the place I was going or if my planes changed , I don't view it as control or a burden to make a call to inform him. I see it as letting him know I made it there safe and sound, I also do it out of respect because I do care about his feelings and I love him! Plus this give him peace of mind.... Likewise he calls me....
Like I said a few post ago we have an appointment with a counselor Wednesday and hope we come to mutual grounds. To clarify a few things she does not go out all the time as what some think. She hasn't cheat. She goes for innocent fun and she isn't out all hours of the night and she has her own job and makes dang near as much as me so we are good there. We will see how it goes Wednesday and I will let everyone know how a trained counselor approaches this. Thanks for all the advice........well at least some of it lol
Like I said a few post ago we have an appointment with a counselor Wednesday and hope we come to mutual grounds. To clarify a few things she does not go out all the time as what some think. She hasn't cheat. She goes for innocent fun and she isn't out all hours of the night and she has her own job and makes dang near as much as me so we are good there. We will see how it goes Wednesday and I will let everyone know how a trained counselor approaches this. Thanks for all the advice........well at least some of it lol
I didn't read the entire thread but did the OP mention how the wife is dressed when she goes out to these clubs? Is she dressed to maximize her sexual appeal to the opposite gender? The friend who is a known cheat is also kind of a red flag. On the other hand, if the wife had always enjoyed clubbing, this is probably not such a big deviation from her standard behavior.
Serious question: does your wife ever do things with her single friends that don't involve the club scene?
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If something I was doing made my spouse feel insecure, yes I stop! Friends, night clubs etc, etc, etc ....Are not wroth it!
