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Old 06-26-2014, 08:24 PM
 
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When I try to talk to friends who are dating someone, they always tell me they're too busy to talk or too busy to do anything. But then when other friends ask them for stuff, they have all of the time in the world. Sometimes I take this to mean that people just don't like me very much and feel bummed that it happens so often because that means most people don't like me very much

Is it just a coincidence that I try to talk to people whenever they happen to be busy?
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Old 06-26-2014, 08:28 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Find different friends.
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Old 06-26-2014, 08:29 PM
 
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When I try to talk to friends who are dating someone, they always tell me they're too busy to talk or too busy to do anything. But then when other friends ask them for stuff, they have all of the time in the world. Sometimes I take this to mean that people just don't like me very much and feel bummed that it happens so often because that means most people don't like me very much

Is it just a coincidence that I try to talk to people whenever they happen to be busy?
Then they're not your friends, and you don't give them the time of day.

True friends make time for you. True friends call you when you need help. True friends do not judge you.

True friends are there.

You'll find them. Weed out the rest.
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Old 06-26-2014, 10:45 PM
 
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I suggest new friends.

No real friend is coincidentally busy every time you contact them.
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Old 06-26-2014, 10:47 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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I agree... those "friends" are obviously not YOUR friends. Drop them and find new ones.
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Old 06-26-2014, 11:21 PM
 
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When I try to talk to friends who are dating someone, they always tell me they're too busy to talk or too busy to do anything. But then when other friends ask them for stuff, they have all of the time in the world. Sometimes I take this to mean that people just don't like me very much and feel bummed that it happens so often because that means most people don't like me very much

Is it just a coincidence that I try to talk to people whenever they happen to be busy?
Some people are a-holes and just use you when they're not in a relationship. Others are actually your friend and will still be around while they're in a relationship.

When you have friends who are the former ditch them and befriend people who are actually nice.
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Old 06-26-2014, 11:39 PM
 
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I agree... those "friends" are obviously not YOUR friends. Drop them and find new ones.
It is not that easy to make friends and get hard next to imposable once your older. I know i been trying for a long time to make new friends and it is like pulling teeth some times.

I been trying to make friends and am trying to make one .
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