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I can't say anything more than what Jillabean said...it is very true. Don't do things that make you feel uncomfortable and unlike yourself, like TRYING to be one thing or the other. Take care of what matters to you, don't overdo, don't overthink, if someone likes you back then, great. If they don't then move on. Its a waste of time for yourself to play games.
I guess I could say more...but read what she wrote carefully, she had some really good insight about this.
What's your problem? You are good looking why no lady?
I have a girlfriend and totally happy with her.
She was into me from day 1, I didn't have to jump through hoops of fire to impress a girl who doesn't impress her. I just can't understand why anyone would try to win over someone who doesn't give them the time of day from the start. It seems disrespectful in my eyes.
She was into me from day 1, I didn't have to jump through hoops of fire to impress a girl who doesn't impress her. I just can't understand why anyone would try to win over someone who doesn't give them the time of day from the start. It seems disrespectful in my eyes.
That's great for you. It's like you believe all men can be just like you and not have to do any work to find someone.
You're wrong.
There's a lot of men who has to be persistent to get dates and relationships. Some have to work much harder than others. Many times the men have to "grow" onto the woman before she becomes attracted to him. That's how life works for a lot of men.
You don't have to worry about any of that apparently, so you leaving snide remarks on some of these threads doesn't really make sense to me. Whatever helps you get your jollies in the morning I guess.
She was into me from day 1, I didn't have to jump through hoops of fire to impress a girl who doesn't impress her. I just can't understand why anyone would try to win over someone who doesn't give them the time of day from the start. It seems disrespectful in my eyes.
No noone should have to jump through hoops.And I'm aware that you have a gf.Good for you.
There were some guys I did like from the beginning and it seemed they liked me as well BUT they either eventually lose interest or they were never interested from the beginning. They would pretty much start acting like they didn't care. I just took the hint and stopped talking to them. It kind of hurt but meh....oh well.
That's great for you. It's like you believe all men can be just like you and not have to do any work to find someone.
You're wrong.
There's a lot of men who has to be persistent to get dates and relationships. Some have to work much harder than others. Many times the men have to "grow" onto the woman before she becomes attracted to him. That's how life works for a lot of men.
You don't have to worry about any of that apparently, so you leaving snide remarks on some of these threads doesn't really make sense to me. Whatever helps you get your jollies in the morning I guess.
I'm not making snide remarks, and I am positive that any guy can have my attitude and anyone who does would be a lot happier in life. I don't mean not do work, everyone has to do SOME work to meeting someone. Meeting a girl, asking her out, taking her out, treating her nicely is all things that have to be done. I'm not saying treat them like dirt. I just mean that if a girl isn't really into a guy, he should say "screw that" and move on and forget that girl.
Guys should stop caring about women who don't show interest and move on and find someone who DOES show interest from the start.
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