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Easiest way for a guy to be involuntary celibate and be single, is simple, do nothing, what or who, where, when, did life, society, culture, make it the guys role to take life and matters into their own hands, while women remain passive and get things and pleasure handed to them on a silver platter?
Involuntarily celibate men should advertise for involuntarily celibate women and hook up. Both probably have social issues, and could work them out together. Go for it! And don't come back and tell me there are no involuntarily celibate women, because there are. Just advertise for them and they'll be running after you desperately.
how can you help me? I can't get dates and never have before. i would rather be dead then stuck like this for the rest of my life. i never had any connections with anyone. why cant you understand that. most people have dating lives and the ones that don't are probably losers.
i have ways to help you, but you have to want my help.
You know, there are a lot of mixed messages on this board regarding this topic. There are threads from people who seem very needy, desperate and co-dependent. And they are told that they need to find contentment on their own and fulfill their own lives without counting on others to do it for them. That they must first learn to be happy with themselves. But now you have two posters who are essentially saying that you must depend on others in order to live a fulfilled life. So which is it?
As for everyone moving on while you remain in place what's the point of dwelling on it? What good will that do?
I was wondering the same thing....
Different people have different opinions. I believe that what they are trying to say is that you need to find a balance between the two. Let the other person add to your happiness. I don't like the idea of having to have someone by your side just so you won't have to be alone. I don't want to be a burden on anyone and one of the main goals in my life is to be independent.
Involuntarily celibate men should advertise for involuntarily celibate women and hook up. Both probably have social issues, and could work them out together. Go for it! And don't come back and tell me there are no involuntarily celibate women, because there are. Just advertise for them and they'll be running after you desperately.
Agreed, except that the challenge is too serious to be left to the private sector. We need a Ministry of Mating, a federal agency which serves as matchmaker. We've seen how private efforts (online dating) degenerate into ruses and schemes, empty promises, frustrations and crossed signals. But a centralized organization, with a national registry at its disposal, can produce real good - and distribute the most, to those who need it most.
Different people have different opinions. I believe that what they are trying to say is that you need to find a balance between the two. Let the other person add to your happiness. I don't like the idea of having to have someone by your side just so you won't have to be alone. I don't want to be a burden on anyone and one of the main goals in my life is to be independent.
Simple really, you can't depend on others for 100% of your happiness. However we all need relationships and social interactions to be happy, one does not cancel the other out. It is really is not that hard.
Simple really, you can't depend on others for 100% of your happiness. However we all need relationships and social interactions to be happy, one does not cancel the other out. It is really is not that hard.
This I agree with but the discussion is about romantic relationships and I maintain that not everyone needs romantic relationships to be happy.
The fallacy of what he told you is that he was never married, so he assumed it would be a wonderful experience with butterflies and rainbows.
Had he actually gotten married, his advice might have been much different.
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