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OP, you are going to nag your husband right out of your marriage. Lay off with trying to control where his eyeballs go when his hand is on his own crotch. He is entitled to rub one out every day if he wants, even if you were banging him cross-eyed every day as well.
It's obvious he has not had sex with anyone else. He may have been tempted, but newsflash, temptation is everywhere. He made the choice not to go through with it. Appreciate that and get to work on the issues in your marriage that have led up to this, with a counselor if necessary.
As for your recurrent yeast infection, see another doctor, eat plain yogurt (not the sugary garbage with fruit already in it, which is anything but healthy), and lay off the carbs. Cut back on drinking if you drink, too. If it's that tough to get rid of, you will need treatment from the inside out that includes both medication and dietary changes.
In the meantime, watch an old Traci Lords flick and learn how to suck the chrome off a tailpipe. If your husband complains about you using that to make up for the times when you can't have intercourse, he's an idiot.
Stop asking for advice on an Internet forum and make an appointment with a therapist immediately, preferably one who specializing in sex counseling. Your marriage is in trouble, mainly due to your inability to trust your husband. The fact that you remember the exact dates of each occurrence is pretty crazy. Seek out professional help so you can figure out why you have such trust issues.
It does seem that way. He has done a lot of porn and I might be worried it was other stuff too.
You are lucky to still be married and the man talking to you.
If I had ever told my husband he had to take a lie detector test he would have laughed in my face, walked out of the door and never returned.
You may as well start getting everything split between you as far as the business, house, car and kids go because you are headed to divorce court in a hurry and honestly I think it is well deserved and probably long overdue.
Bigred, at this point whether he did or didn't isn't the issue anymore except to you. He cared enough to take a lie detector test, which to be honest most people guilty or innocent probably wouldn't do. This might be the time to have a talk, let go whatever happened, start up fresh with a long conversation with him, then decide to work to make it better as a couple or part ways amiacably as possible since children are involved. If he did do something, I'm am sure there is a lot of guilt feelings on his part. You have to decide to keep driving yourself crazy, and him too, or work on your marriage. Either way, I wish you and your family well..
Frihed89: Thanks for your reply. Seems to be the most reasonable one here.
Reasonable? Says the woman who subjects his husband to a polygraph test.
This reminds me of a a guy I knew who's wife would sign her initials on her husbands dick with a permanent marker every time he left to work, upon coming home, her mark better be as legible and in the same place where she marked it. Lol. Kahrazy!
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