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Lol there is no right or wrong, especially the first one. The last one is if you would prefer conversation about nothing(no real substance, just random stuff) or something(substance and meaning).
I wanted to see where people stand so what do you find attractive or unattractive. You must pick an option for each one:
Arm hair or leg hair?
Thin but stupid?
Obese but smart?
Lives with parents at 20, 30, or not at all?
Works two part time jobs or one full time job?
Has a little bad debt or a lot of good debt?
Great sex for one night, or decent sex for a year?
Can hold a conversation for an hour about nothing or something?
Feel free to add your own.
Arm hair or leg hair? Sure. No prob with guys who have hair there.
Thin but stupid? NOPE. Thin, skinny, anorexic is a surefire negative in my book.
Obese but smart? Interesting to talk to, but as to the rest... no.
Lives with parents at 20, 30, or not at all? Is he taking care of his elderly or sick parents? If so, a resounding YES! If he's mooching, forget it.
Works two part time jobs or one full time job? Not really. When would I see him?
Has a little bad debt or a lot of good debt? Debt is scary.
Great sex for one night, or decent sex for a year? Decent sex for a year.
Can hold a conversation for an hour about nothing or something? Being able to hold a conversation is great!
I wanted to see where people stand so what do you find attractive or unattractive. You must pick an option for each one:
Arm hair or leg hair?
Thin but stupid?
Obese but smart?
Lives with parents at 20, 30, or not at all?
Works two part time jobs or one full time job?
Has a little bad debt or a lot of good debt?
Great sex for one night, or decent sex for a year?
Can hold a conversation for an hour about nothing or something?
Feel free to add your own.
I am a straight man, so women generally are not hairy. I don't mind some body hair on women, though the legs should be shaved. Arm hair to an extent is endearing to me, I see some hot chicks with light arm hair and it is cute. No problem, I think for women it would inconsequential.
Weight is not that important, except obesity which is a turn off. I don't like stupid either.
See above.
Living with parents at 20 is not unusual, by 30 yes. But then again its a case by case basis, who knows they could have an active career, social life, etc but are looking after folks. It depends.
Working is attractive, being productive is good.
Debt is bad, except maybe mortgage.
Decent sex for a year, it does not mean it should be mind blowing, but as long as its good yes all year.
Thin but stupid? Obese but smart? Naturally, I'd prefer thin and smart, but if I had to pick one, I pick thin and stupid.
Lives with parents at 20, 30, or not at all? Not at all, duh.
Works two part time jobs or one full time job? One full time job.
Has a little bad debt or a lot of good debt? A little bad debt. Contrary to popular belief owning a home does not provide better returns than renting one.
Great sex for one night, or decent sex for a year? Decent sex for a year
Can hold a conversation for an hour about nothing or something? Something.
Arm hair or leg hair?
unattractive not into the "natural" look
Thin but stupid?
not ideal, but would chose over the below...
Obese but smart?
she would be place in the friend zone....unattractive
Lives with parents at 20, 30, or not at all?
unattractive
Works two part time jobs or one full time job?
if she needs two jobs to make ends meet, I would respect that....over time, I would be fine with kicking down her salary of one, if she wanted to spend more time together. But that would be her decision.
Has a little bad debt or a lot of good debt?
its always better to have good....attractive....bad...unattractive
Great sex for one night, or decent sex for a year?
Great sex for one night, always means a repeat the next day or two, these evolve into ltr or FWB.....having decent, isn't really appealing to me.
Can hold a conversation for an hour about nothing or something?
Im happy to have a conversation for an hour, don't really care what the topic is, as long as it's fresh.
Time to go out, after wasting time on this thread
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