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This seems to be the worst mistake I've made in the dating process. It makes girls run for the hills. Why is it that there so turned off by this?
If anything, I think women do that more. Way more.
Women are way more picky about who they will date or even who they are attracted to, so when they do like someone, they'll tend to get ahead of themselves.
Desperate guys who have minimal success and experience tend to do this as well too.
Maybe they don't understand what you are doing or saying, much like a few of us here.
What in the world does "futures them" mean exactly? Does that mean you put them on some sort of "when I can't find someone for a date, sex, relationship, marriage, mother of my children", I can call them list?
This seems to be the worst mistake I've made in the dating process. It makes girls run for the hills. Why is it that there so turned off by this?
Edit: What I mean is to plan the future of the relationship in various ways
I think it's more like the other way around, isn't it? The guy must be such a loser to get that reaction from the girls. LOL. That's what ALL women want.
Oh, okay so there's the difference you talking about girls, not women.
Because sometimes we hear it as the plan you are making for us (the female) and it feels like we aren't being asked what we want so much as being expected comply.
You're probably doing it way too early in the process and it's coming off as smothery or needy. I don't know because you didn't give much to go on.
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