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Nothing to heckle about. Sometimes, things seem more important than they are when we're younger. I was also overly obsessed with some loser guy who didn't give a crap about me when I was 23. You'll get over her.
Nothing to heckle about. Sometimes, things seem more important than they are when we're younger. I was also overly obsessed with some loser guy who didn't give a crap about me when I was 23. You'll get over her.
I know. She said she gave me a chance, because she saw my inner beauty. But then admitted to toying with my feelings and stuff.
That whole visit I was planning out earlier this year, all she could say was at least I didn't waste my money.
How she described it, I took it too far (which I did) and it drove her away, because I gave her too much admiration for the fact that she gave me a chance once. She said she didn't realize how serious I was about visiting her. And basically she toyed with my emotions but didn't know I was "susceptible to bull****".
The whole point of cutting someone off is that you wouldn't....say anything?
You clearly need to work on your self-esteem. Just because people 'give you a chance' doesn't make them your soulmate. She didn't even like you that much in the first place.
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Originally Posted by Desert kid
23. Yes, you can heckle now.
Why would people heckle a 23-year-old? I've never been heckled and I am 23. However, I think I have a good deal more relationship experience than you and I certainly wouldn't keep posting about an ex who never really liked me anyway.
The whole point of cutting someone off is that you wouldn't....say anything?
You clearly need to work on your self-esteem. Just because people 'give you a chance' doesn't make them your soulmate. She didn't even like you that much in the first place.
Why would people heckle a 23-year-old? I've never been heckled and I am 23. However, I think I have a good deal more relationship experience than you and I certainly wouldn't keep posting about an ex who never really liked me anyway.
Sorry to hear it. I realize my last post sounded harsh, but sometimes I just try to knock people out of their melancholy.
I had a hard time getting over my exes too. But one thing that helped was that I refused to talk to them for a while. That's an absolute must, in my opinion. I guess you wanted closure and this is the closest to that you will get. It often doesn't make you feel better right away. It takes time.
Last edited by savoytruffle; 07-08-2014 at 04:05 PM..
Sorry to hear it. I realize my last post sounded harsh, but sometimes I just try to knock people out of their melancholy.
I had a hard time getting over my exes too. But one thing that helped was that I refused to talk to them for a while. That's an absolute must, in my opinion. I guess you wanted closure and this is the closest to that you will get. It often doesn't make you feel better right away. It takes time.
She tells me she still wants to be friends, and that I have a place in her heart.
She says she wants to keep in contact as just friends and sees how it goes. Either that or she cuts me off completely.
But she says she's sorry to put me through this. Guess I'll have to fight through that too.
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