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My SO gets turned on during sex when talking about ex's, the size of their private parts and how we had sex. To me talking is a turn off, PERIOD, especially about ex's! I told my SO, if anything, let's talk about us. I still don't like that because my SO gets distracted and ends up neglecting what should be doing or stopping in the middle to talk. I told my SO this and then says but it turns me on and is upset I don't my SO to do it at all. It is putting a strain on our sex life but we can't seem to meet in the middle.
People are weird- I just was talking to a longtime friend who told me he
had a threesome w/ a couple a few years back, lol
The guy wanted to watch my friend (who's insanely good looking) do his wife....
Of course since I'm just his friend, lol I just listened, non judgmentally.
Now if it was a guy I actually was in a LTR with- I would have told him don't tell me.
But this is just as unusual......nothing good can come of it.
My SO gets turned on during sex when talking about ex's, the size of their private parts and how we had sex. To me talking is a turn off, PERIOD, especially about ex's! I told my SO, if anything, let's talk about us. I still don't like that because my SO gets distracted and ends up neglecting what should be doing or stopping in the middle to talk. I told my SO this and then says but it turns me on and is upset I don't my SO to do it at all. It is putting a strain on our sex life but we can't seem to meet in the middle.
Next time you are mad at him, record some of the hottest action you can remember, give it to him good...then when you make up, he can use a bluetooth, and just connect to your phone, and you are happy, because you don't need to say anything, and he is happy, because he gets to listen to all the details....win win
Talking about the ex? Of hell no. I'd pull out, get out of bed, get dressed and leave.
Honestly, sometimes people just need to literally shut the #### up. Enjoy the moment.
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