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Old 07-06-2014, 08:47 PM
 
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My SO gets turned on during sex when talking about ex's, the size of their private parts and how we had sex. To me talking is a turn off, PERIOD, especially about ex's! I told my SO, if anything, let's talk about us. I still don't like that because my SO gets distracted and ends up neglecting what should be doing or stopping in the middle to talk. I told my SO this and then says but it turns me on and is upset I don't my SO to do it at all. It is putting a strain on our sex life but we can't seem to meet in the middle.
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Old 07-06-2014, 08:50 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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LOL... people are strange...

It's like the cuckold fantasy..... I just couldn't imagine getting off on that sort of thing.

Tell your man to be like Bill, have a coke and smile and shut the f up.
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Old 07-06-2014, 08:52 PM
 
Location: Pa
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He talks about his ex's during it? Wth?!
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Old 07-06-2014, 08:57 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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He talks about his ex's during it? Wth?!
IKR???

I love talking, but NOT about exes or anyone not present.



WAIT ...

Does he want to talk about YOUR exes?? Are you male/female?? Or male/male?
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Old 07-06-2014, 08:58 PM
 
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People are weird- I just was talking to a longtime friend who told me he
had a threesome w/ a couple a few years back, lol
The guy wanted to watch my friend (who's insanely good looking) do his wife....
Of course since I'm just his friend, lol I just listened, non judgmentally.
Now if it was a guy I actually was in a LTR with- I would have told him don't tell me.

But this is just as unusual......nothing good can come of it.
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Old 07-06-2014, 09:16 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Talking is fine. Talking about exes? Oh, HELL, no.
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Old 07-06-2014, 09:16 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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My SO gets turned on during sex when talking about ex's, the size of their private parts and how we had sex. To me talking is a turn off, PERIOD, especially about ex's! I told my SO, if anything, let's talk about us. I still don't like that because my SO gets distracted and ends up neglecting what should be doing or stopping in the middle to talk. I told my SO this and then says but it turns me on and is upset I don't my SO to do it at all. It is putting a strain on our sex life but we can't seem to meet in the middle.
Talking about ex's??? During sex?? EWWWWWWWW

That is just too weird for me.
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Old 07-06-2014, 09:21 PM
 
Location: Redwood Shores, Ca
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Next time you are mad at him, record some of the hottest action you can remember, give it to him good...then when you make up, he can use a bluetooth, and just connect to your phone, and you are happy, because you don't need to say anything, and he is happy, because he gets to listen to all the details....win win
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Old 07-06-2014, 09:24 PM
 
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to me, talking during sex is me saying, "there aint no cars comin relax".
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Old 07-06-2014, 09:35 PM
 
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Talking about the ex? Of hell no. I'd pull out, get out of bed, get dressed and leave.

Honestly, sometimes people just need to literally shut the #### up. Enjoy the moment.
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