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Alright, I am quite annoyed at this point because this man clearly won't let me go!
About 4 years ago (I was in college), I dated this guy on and off until he openly told me he didn't want a relationship with me. I back off with dignity and moved on with my life. I even moved abroad and started dating other people. He barely crossed my mind.
A year later, he came back with a heartfelt apology and asked me for another shot. He wanted to get serious. I was basically like "Too late buddy, you had your shot, I moved on but I wish you all the best". (Of course, it's no exactly what I said but you get my point).
Anyway, the guy started dating some girl about two weeks later. They became a long distance couple (Europe/South America). They got engaged about 4 months later. He moved to South America about a year ago. Back in March he suddenly added me on Facebook and started basically saying that moving for love was a mistake. He even mentioned how he has always wanted to stay in touch but I didn't (you rejected me dude!). I felt uncomfortable because I no longer have feelings for him and he's engaged so I blocked him.
Today, I checked the stats of a couple of websites I have, personal pages and I realized he's been creeping on me for the past couple of weeks. He's watching videos of me daily (don't ask how I found his identity).
It's bothering me a lot. He's engaged and I'm no longer interested, it's been 3 years! What should I do?
Since you said not to ask how you found his identity, I'm wondering if you have been creeping on him a little too.
What can you do? I'd do nothing at all, except to stop looking around to see if he is still there. So what if he is? Ignore him.
His city shows whenever he checks the website. He's the only person I know from that small town in South America. Whenever I get a visitor, the city they checked the website from shows in the stats. He obviously doesn't know this.
Since you said not to ask how you found his identity, I'm wondering if you have been creeping on him a little too.
What can you do? I'd do nothing at all, except to stop looking around to see if he is still there. So what if he is? Ignore him.
No, not at all. Truthfully, I find it slightly strange that he wasn't able to fully move on after three years. It makes me uncomfortable and I find this behavior of his to be quite intrusive.
Hindsight is 20/20 in that you shouldn't have added him to your FB when he sent a request. Just block him where you can and ignore him everywhere else. In fact, let him watch, so that his fiancee sees his browser history one day on an autofill and pitches a fit at him.
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