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I remember when I stopped talking to him the first time. It was March 2013 and he called me with the Meghan spiel again. I was out a with a friend and her friends and he worked me up into a tizzy. After I hung up, my friend's one guy friend laughed and said, "Well, Meghan... I can see that went well" and laughed. I got angry and he said, "Seriously, forget that guy... it's not worth it." So I did until after I was assaulted and the few friends I had left here abandoned me. We caught up and he was Mr. Nice Guy (again... he treats me to things)... then I got engrossed with moving things. I'm not even sure how we caught up again... but that's someone who just needs to remain on the forget list.
I have no friends here in Pennsylvania. Most of my friends are where I'm moving to and until I get something lined up, I'm here until September... it's a lonely existence here and I guess that's why I started talking to him again. I have my fingers crossed for these two Michigan jobs.
Yeah, I told him many of times that I do not find this funny and I loathe it. He actually admitted to his mother, "Yeah, she's freaked out on me a few times about and hates it when I call her 'Meg.'" Really? No wonder why I stopped talking to him for 9 months. When I move to Michigan, I'm not keeping in touch with him. His mother actually said to him, "Hey, why don't you go visit her in Michigan when she moves?" I guess it's the way I said, "I like guests," but his mother got offended and he didn't say anything. Honestly, I'm going to be renting a one bedroom place, so I don't really have the room... and I don't have the room for someone who doesn't get my name right. Ugh.
You kept going back for more?
If he did that to me, he wouldn't be welcome if I was living in a house with 40 rooms.
If he did that to me, he wouldn't be welcome if I was living in a house with 40 rooms.
I'm not sure why I went back after the 9 month hiatus. I shouldn't have. I am still trying to figure out why he brought me back to his house. He's never done that before and now thinking about it because before it we hung out in a public place or with his friends... I'm glad his mom was there (he was REALLY SURPRISED when we got there and she was there, he said, "Wow, mom is done work early")... I would hate to think what would have happened. Yes, cutting ties and he's not welcomed when I move... but I don't think he's really too interested, so I have nothing to worry about.
It sounds passive-aggressive. He's an idiot. Are you two from a different culture? Just wondering, since his mom tried to fix you up, and the parents were so involved. It sounds like he needs to mature a bit. It's not normal to call you by a different name, and to refuse to use your name when you told him to stop calling you "Meg".
It sounds passive-aggressive. He's an idiot. Are you two from a different culture? Just wondering, since his mom tried to fix you up, and the parents were so involved. It sounds like he needs to mature a bit. It's not normal to call you by a different name, and to refuse to use your name when you told him to stop calling you "Meg".
No, not really. He's Catholic; I was raised Catholic, but I left the church because religion was never really in my parents' life and I just made the sacraments to appease my grandma (but afterwards she said, it was up to us... Catholicism isn't the be all and end all; she was liberal... my dad is spiritual and mom is an atheist). However, I guess his parents are more traditional where mine aren't. My parents think I should just do whatever I need to do, as long as it's done responsibly. He's also in the military and I'm interested in moving away from here and not pursuing anything. He's not interested in pursuing anything either, which he said his mom hates. I guess it's just different priorities: mine is moving to where I want to be, growing, getting help, and working. He is in the military, he has to graduate college (he's older than me... but took time off for the military) and I think it's all about shooting, martial arts and racing for him.
I guess it was passive aggressive. Since things happened to me, I get freaked out if people suggest their house.
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