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This can't be a real post. Someone who cares so little about their family that he will throw it all away because being anti-establishment is more important than truly committing to his partner and ensuring protection for the family he helped create?
This can't be a real post. Someone who cares so little about their family that he will throw it all away because being anti-establishment is more important than truly committing to his partner and ensuring protection for the family he helped create?
There's something called a will that show how much I care about them but you seem to know better. But as I said, it seems to be all about the money to women. A woman who only stays with a man if they marry is showing her true colours.
Seriously!
Fear of government intervention and fear of commitment... sounds like a scared boy. A man would step up and do the right thing.
Of course I don't want government intervention. I don't know why would anyone want that! Fear of commitment? 9 years and 3 kids? Do you really want to question my commitment?
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Of course I don't want government intervention. I don't know why would anyone want that! Fear of commitment? 9 years and 3 kids? Do you really want to question my commitment?
If you would bail on the relationship due to this issue then yes, yes I do question it.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I find it interesting that people assume her wishes are more important/more relevant than mine. Most of you must be women, I guess.
I'm a guy, and I don't assume that. I just don't think yours are MORE important than hers. Of course, doubt this is real. There are very few men that would balk at marriage if they were really truly madly in love with a woman, and was the mother of his children, and it was important to her. There is nothing in your posts indicating you love her and that you really want to make her happy. Nothing.
Of course I don't want government intervention. I don't know why would anyone want that!
The govt has no say in my marriage. What do you think they will do to you if you decide to marry?
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Fear of commitment? 9 years and 3 kids? Do you really want to question my commitment?
Yes indeed I do.
Especially when you say
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I doubt she would get to that point but if that's what she truly wants then yes, she can go find someone else because I won't change my thoughts.
Fear of commitment, lack of compromise, an unwillingness to change, the willingness to kick them out of your life rather than consider their wants/needs.... all there in that sentence.
No where do you mention love, on top of all that you HAVE said!
Fear of commitment? 9 years and 3 kids? Do you really want to question my commitment?
Fear of the piece of paper is less commitment than no fear of the piece of paper.
Yes, you have shown commitment, but if you were 100% committed then the paper would not be a big deal.
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