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Old 08-29-2014, 11:52 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Got an email today about someone getting fired.

It read... " So and So has their last day today and don't let them in the bldg after today."...

Makes ya wonder what ya have to do to get that treatment.

Always looking for an angle... I suppose......an angle to not get fired.......

 
Old 08-30-2014, 12:13 AM
 
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Got an email today about someone getting fired.

It read... " So and So has their last day today and don't let them in the bldg after today."...

Makes ya wonder what ya have to do to get that treatment.

Always looking for an angle... I suppose......an angle to not get fired.......
If that happened to me I would have to escort myself out of the house and I really don't want to do that since it is still raining.
 
Old 08-30-2014, 12:28 AM
 
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I do not get people sometimes . I know I should not care because it is no of my concern and all and maybe I am the one that does not get it.

How can any woman or man date someone that has kids with multiple people? when they do not have kids ?

What kind of woman in her right mind would date a guy with 2,3,4,5 or even 6 kids all by diffrent woman and he does not take care of them at all ? Even if he did does not that say set off a red flag in people heads?

Guys why would want to date a woman that was multiple kids by different men ? I would be turned off if a woman told me she has 3 kids by different men . I would be like well it was nice to meet you. Also why does not this set off a red flag in you mind?

I do not have kids but even if i meet a girl with one kids I might be willing to give her a pass on that one. I rather date a female with out kids seeing it would be far seeing that I do not have any.

One saying that I use to see if a woman would be a good fit or not is this If she does not work out it will not work . Not saying she has to hit the gym but I live an active lifestyle and do a lot of out door things and if she not fit enough to do things it will not work out in the end.
 
Old 08-30-2014, 05:45 AM
 
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Some people like kids and don't mind if their partner has kids.

Who other folks date is of no concern to you. You don't have to understand why they choose to date that person. It doesn't have any impact on your life at all. If you don't want to date someone with kids, then don't. It's as simple as that.
 
Old 08-30-2014, 09:04 AM
 
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I do not get people sometimes . I know I should not care because it is no of my concern and all and maybe I am the one that does not get it.

How can any woman or man date someone that has kids with multiple people? when they do not have kids ?

What kind of woman in her right mind would date a guy with 2,3,4,5 or even 6 kids all by diffrent woman and he does not take care of them at all ? Even if he did does not that say set off a red flag in people heads?

Guys why would want to date a woman that was multiple kids by different men ? I would be turned off if a woman told me she has 3 kids by different men . I would be like well it was nice to meet you. Also why does not this set off a red flag in you mind?

I do not have kids but even if i meet a girl with one kids I might be willing to give her a pass on that one. I rather date a female with out kids seeing it would be far seeing that I do not have any.

One saying that I use to see if a woman would be a good fit or not is this If she does not work out it will not work . Not saying she has to hit the gym but I live an active lifestyle and do a lot of out door things and if she not fit enough to do things it will not work out in the end.

Krieger,

You should not assume that anyone is just bed hopping with everyone they meet.

I have a friend who has been married 3 times and has 3 children, one with each husband. The reason she has been married 3 times though is because her first husband died from Cancer when the child was 2.
She married again, child number 2 was born and that husband was killed in a car accident when that child was 4.
She married again and had child number 3 and the man she married the third time has raised all 3 of those children like they are his own and he never refers to them as step children. They are his children and they all call him Dad.

Don't be so quick to judge someone in regards to the number of children and fathers they have.
The fact that you do not want children though should make it easy for you to not date women with children.

and that "pass" that you will give someone with one child....... keep it, you will be better off in the long run.
 
Old 08-30-2014, 10:15 AM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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If that happened to me I would have to escort myself out of the house and I really don't want to do that since it is still raining.
Wear a 'Columbia' rain jacket with hood.... It's often fun playing out in the rain.


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Old 08-30-2014, 10:49 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Got an email today about someone getting fired.

It read... " So and So has their last day today and don't let them in the bldg after today."...

Makes ya wonder what ya have to do to get that treatment.

Always looking for an angle... I suppose......an angle to not get fired.......

Not much. Seems to be standard procedure any more, regardless of the company or your position. I can almost guarantee security, or someone else had to escort them from the building with a box of their belongings.

Humiliating to say the least.
 
Old 08-30-2014, 11:05 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Not much. Seems to be standard procedure any more, regardless of the company or your position. I can almost guarantee security, or someone else had to escort them from the building with a box of their belongings.

Humiliating to say the least.
Curious what the deal was.... usually when someone leaves pleasantly, there's a usually a get together at a sports bar near the office and people show up, etc etc...

This dude sounds like he was escorted out of the bldg. I don't work in the office per se, so I'm not in there all the time, so next time I'm in the office working on a project, I'll have to dig around and find out WTF happened... LOL.... the guy was in a low level fairly easy to replace position... not that that matters I guess....
 
Old 08-30-2014, 11:32 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Hmmm. Musta been a douche to HR when they gave him the bad news then. lol

It was probably "Sorry, Joe. But due to such n such, we're going to have to let you go in 2 weeks . We've set up a nice severance package for you"

"What? Are you ****ing kidding me you ****ing piece of dog ****!?!?!?"

"You know what, Joe? You can leave right now. You're fired. "
 
Old 08-30-2014, 11:53 AM
 
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Anyone fired at my husband's place is escorted to their office to clean out and then escorted out of the building. They don't want folks trash talking to other employees or cleaning out files that they need..etc.

If you leave on your own accord then you get a lunch...lol
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