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Old 07-19-2014, 11:45 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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(1) Go out with a woman you're not too attracted to
(2) Go all-out being a boyfriend: make her laugh, take her to fancy parties, etc. crucial point: this all must be shown off via Facebook.
(3) Women you're attracted to will be jealous that she gets to go out with you.
(4) Upgrade to one of the attractive women.

Thoughts?
I'll make it really really easy for you:
1. find an attractive escort or 3 and take pictures with all of them while you are balling at the club with hundred dollar bills.
2. Collect the numbers of all the "catches" that are suddenly interested
3. Get dumped when they find a dumber dude with a bigger wallet

But there you go, you'll have all sorts of "attractive" chicks pounding at your door. Hope you find gold diggers fulfilling!

Meanwhile emotionally mature people will find and evaluate partners based in their happiness together and not Facebook likes.

 
Old 07-19-2014, 11:52 PM
 
Location: Concord, California
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The key word here would be _ emotionally mature_ I don't think someone would even come up with this 'grand idea' if they had it...but maybe when they get burned they'll gain a little of it...hopefully.
 
Old 07-20-2014, 05:14 AM
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The key word here would be _ emotionally mature_ .
OP - if your real-life persona is the same as what you seem to be like on these forums, it's no surprise that you cannot find an attractive woman, or break out from your dead-end job (your posts on the "Work & Employment" board). You do have a lot of growing up to do.
 
Old 07-20-2014, 06:05 AM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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no need to get so elaborate. if a woman wants to get a man, all she needs to do is show up naked with a case of beer.
Well, she doesn't want to make the trap TOO obvious!
 
Old 07-20-2014, 06:54 AM
 
Location: My House
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I'll make it really really easy for you:
1. find an attractive escort or 3 and take pictures with all of them while you are balling at the club with hundred dollar bills.
2. Collect the numbers of all the "catches" that are suddenly interested
3. Get dumped when they find a dumber dude with a bigger wallet

But there you go, you'll have all sorts of "attractive" chicks pounding at your door. Hope you find gold diggers fulfilling!

Meanwhile emotionally mature people will find and evaluate partners based in their happiness together and not Facebook likes.
I know a guy who posts pics of his sports car, of hot chicks (friends of his) draped over the hood, him at clubs with these same chicks, etc on FB.

Has NO luck at all with women. He even makes a good amount of money.

So, the "FB pics of you hanging with hot chicks" strategy? Doesn't work.
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Old 07-20-2014, 07:46 AM
 
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Originally Posted by const_iterator View Post
(1) Go out with a woman you're not too attracted to
(2) Go all-out being a boyfriend: make her laugh, take her to fancy parties, etc. crucial point: this all must be shown off via Facebook.
(3) Women you're attracted to will be jealous that she gets to go out with you.
(4) Upgrade to one of the attractive women.

Thoughts?
Many men have girlfriends. Most beautiful girls have boyfriends. Why should a beautiful woman feel jealous of you just because you have a girlfriend as if that was some extraordinary feat? You seem very naïve and inexperienced. Back to the drawing board.
 
Old 07-20-2014, 08:50 AM
 
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Many men have girlfriends. Most beautiful girls have boyfriends. Why should a beautiful woman feel jealous of you just because you have a girlfriend as if that was some extraordinary feat? You seem very naïve and inexperienced. Back to the drawing board.
I have seen it happen actually.

Not with 'beautiful' women perhaps but with cute/attractive women.

They will be jealous of men they rejected when they eventually get a GF.

Not so much because they want HIM, but because they are jealous of the happy or seemingly happy relationship and want that.

It may cloud their mind into thinking they want him temporarily, but at the end of the day, an unattractive guy is an unattractive guy, and it'll end up bad for the guy.
 
Old 07-20-2014, 08:57 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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I don't know what everyone is talking about. With the OP's wit and charm, he should have no problem pulling this off.
 
Old 07-20-2014, 08:58 AM
 
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This thread reads like the script for a 2014 remake of Can't Buy Me Love.
 
Old 07-20-2014, 09:53 AM
 
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Originally Posted by const_iterator View Post
(1) Go out with a woman you're not too attracted to
(2) Go all-out being a boyfriend:
make her laugh, take her to fancy parties, etc. crucial point: this all must be shown off via Facebook.
(3) Women you're attracted to will be jealous that she gets to go out with you.
(4) Upgrade to one of the attractive women.

Thoughts?
So is she is on this game you're playing with her life?
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