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Old 07-19-2014, 07:38 PM
 
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No, it's not a good idea.

You know what else? Is this new girl the one you made a thread about asking for date ideas? Because now I'm kinda pissed at you too since I apparently helped you cheat on your GF.
Yes, I'm sorry to say it is.
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Old 07-19-2014, 07:39 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Brilliant.

Congratulations. You cheated, and you got caught.

Now come the consequences.
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Old 07-19-2014, 07:40 PM
 
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YES! You cheated on her and you know you did. Anyway you define it, you cheated.

Your ex has no "right" to meet this new girl and it's not her decision to make, it's new girl's decision and she'd be a fool to walk into that one.
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Old 07-19-2014, 07:41 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Well wait, we haven't had sex. We hold hands and all, but is that considered physically cheating?
Didn't you say you kissed a bit in the other thread? If so, then yes. Would your girlfriend be happy if you were holding hands with another woman? And kissing another woman? That's physical, and intimate contact if you have romantic feelings for the person.

I think, if you have to hide relations with another person, you're cheating. If it's innocent and platonic, there's nothing to hide, and no reason a SO can't meet the person.

Have you done things physically with this girl that you wouldn't do with her in your girlfriend's prescience? I say yes, since you're holding her hands and kissing her.

So, even if you haven't had full blown sex, you already have gotten physical in some way with her, and it wasn't platonic since you 2, apparently, have already started dating.

Sex is one way to cheat, but not the only one. So, you were with your girlfriend. You didn't love her, and started up a relationship with another woman, and you've held hands, and kissed. So you have cheated in every way, even without the sex thus far. Emotionally, and physically.

And as for the new girl, if she's gonna sneak around with someone's boyfriend, she needs to be prepared for consequences. Chances are your girlfriend will be civil though. So, she may not do anything to her. Though I wouldn't fault her if she did lol

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Old 07-19-2014, 07:42 PM
 
Location: Redwood Shores, Ca
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wouldn't worry if you own kevlar

You're young, and you made a little mistake move on, but don't let her meet the new girl, because it will just hurt her more if she does.
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Old 07-19-2014, 07:43 PM
 
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I told her it was a bad idea, but she said that because I was talking to this girl behind her back for a month, she has a right to meet her. Technically, I cheated on my girlfriend, if not sexually, then emotionally.
yeah, shes making excuses to try to harm your next relationship. tell her its a bad idea, and that she does not have any right to meet this new girl.

now understand this, your old girl is likely to become a stalker because of this, so be on the look out for this happening.
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Old 07-19-2014, 07:45 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Ha, well, yes...should I be worried?

You tell me.
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Old 07-19-2014, 07:55 PM
 
Location: Went around the corner & now I'm lost!!!!
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Does she have access to firearms? lol
lol.......yes, does she???
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Old 07-19-2014, 07:56 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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lol.......yes, does she???

He said yes. lol

It was a bad idea before I knew that. It's even worse now.
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Old 07-19-2014, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Went around the corner & now I'm lost!!!!
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You tell me.
LOL...LOL...... I see a need for body armor for the both of them...lol
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