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When she crushed me, I think I lost whatever it is that makes people have crushes. I haven't crushed on anyone in close to 20 years.
Some of you really took adolescence hard. I would say that most of my crushes have been unrequited. I only had that crush feeling for a few of the guys I actually dated. It's a nice feeling though, so I wouldn't want to lose the ability to crush even if it turns into nothing most of the time.
A crush? Has anybody wanted to tell everybody in their family and friends about that special someone? I did. For weeks I called my mom and my two sisters just to tell them that I found this great person. I found out a week before I had to move back home that she has been dating someone for two weeks.
I spent all of college with a crush on the same guy, who was somebody I was friendly with. It was hands down the most intense crush I've ever had, and it was for the most part unrequited. We were in the same major, and since it was a small school, had many, many classes together. We were also in the same music ensembles and both did theatre. I harbored a notably lesser crush simultaneously on a different guy (also didn't go anywhere), and did date a guy I wasn't nearly as into when my crush got into a relationship of his own.
I look back, sometimes, and think, "Would I have enjoyed college more, maybe dated more, etc., if I hadn't been so hung up on him?" It was never gonna happen, and it had some heartwrenching moments, for sure, including an awkward date to our campus formal, where he thought we were going as friends, but I had obvious higher hopes. But, honestly, I wouldn't have done it any differently. I look back fondly on those feelings, even though it never came to anything. I don't regret it. It was a pretty standard rite of passage. And, really, I never did close the door on other guys. Had I happened to meet somebody else I found as interesting, he would for sure have turned my head.
i get crushes all the time. so far non ehave matched barbie benton though, she still intrigues me. however i dont dwell on my crushes as i know that chances are that i will never meet the objects of my affections.
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