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you are too young to bother yourself with someone who doesn't treat you right. Don't let your insecurities cripple you any longer, and find a friend or family member to move with, while you sort your sheet out. Don't be sad, in 15 years you will need time to remember his name. Chalk him up as an experience.
I've been in a very similar situation. Unfortunately, I didn't find out what he was doing until after I had our son. That makes it so much harder to walk away. Luckily he has wanted to work on his issues with sex and relationships. We've been in counseling for over a year now. It's gotten better, but once trust is broken, it's really hard to get back. There are a lot of days I wish I would have left "when all hell broke lose" and my son was just a baby. I have learned that for every inappropriate comment/picture/action, there's about ten more that I didn't know about. Until my boyfriend was about to lose his family, nothing changed. People don't change what they are doing for no reason. You're guy obviously has a lot going on, and honestly it sounds like he's using the depression to get you off his back now that he's been caught. I agree with others- you have nothing tying you together. Get out while you can.
Thank you very much for everyone to reply. It is an eye opener. I know no one is prefect, I am going to have one last talk with him about the reddit comment to /AmISexy. I want to get some closure. He might not have cheated on me but it's sure it's leading that way and his actions just shows how much he is NOT into me.
Nobody is perfect, but perfection and sneaking around behind others backs are a whole different level
Last edited by rego00123; 07-21-2014 at 04:51 PM..
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