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Yea, she already told me she doesn't want me to be a "rebound" boyfriend. I definitely want to take it slow because I don't want to jump into this and get hurt cause I moved too fast. I'm thinking long term so giving her some time isn't too hard.
But yea, I've been hoping for this to happen for a long time and its pretty crazy its happening. I'm cautious not to get overzealous which happens to me when I really like something.
As you know people change. Neither of you are the same people so I say date but not exclusively. If she meets someone else your gone.
I was tempted to do that but I know for sure if she found out, I'd definitely ruin my chance. I was actually talking to someone else before all this happen and stopped talking to her. This is my chance and I don't want to ruin it.
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I was tempted to do that but I know for sure if she found out, I'd definitely ruin my chance. I was actually talking to someone else before all this happen and stopped talking to her. This is my chance and I don't want to ruin it.
Don't ruin it and remember, second chances occur occasionally so take your time and get to KNOW her. Sounds like you both want this so do it right and do it well.
I was tempted to do that but I know for sure if she found out, I'd definitely ruin my chance. I was actually talking to someone else before all this happen and stopped talking to her. This is my chance and I don't want to ruin it.
If you want this to badly, I don't think thats good. Manage your expectations and take things slowly.
Desperate men aren't really a turn on, so I'm told. If you want this to badly, its a need.
Yea, I get that. We were suppose to met up today but she wanted to do it Friday after work instead. I currently live about an hour away so Friday works better for both of us.
Good advice though. Definitely need to tone down my game so I don't scare her off.
I thought for sure someone would hate on me for trying this out.
Yea, I get that. We were suppose to met up today but she wanted to do it Friday after work instead. I currently live about an hour away so Friday works better for both of us.
Good advice though. Definitely need to tone down my game so I don't scare her off.
I thought for sure someone would hate on me for trying this out.
No hate, OP, just encouragement. Sounds like a sweet story. Good luck, give us updates!
And yet, if he didn't want this badly then it wouldn't be worth pursuing.
There is a difference between saving to buy the boat of your dreams over time, and running out and getting two more extra mortgages on your house to do that.
A similar situation here. He wants to be with her and thats great. But needing to be with her, need drives people to desperate action.
I agree with the others who say go for it or you'll regret it . Besides that you'll still see her every so often so that would be painful .
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