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[quote=Adi from the Brunswicks;35773863]Geez, I don't know why these feelings arise. As a religious ascetic, this behavior should be non existent within my blood. Why am I always wired to react this way to women on first sight. I have tried to get rid of it through isolated meditation to god, but its not helping.
Deep down, I have a nice heart. But its stupid qualities like this that mask all the better stuff about me.
And NO, I am NOT getting a tan to satisfy girls . I WILL NEVER ACCEPT being used as a sex slave, alright.[/quote]
hahaha, try it, you might like it
Just kidding.
Work your way up - practice talking with older women first or some that are really nice. Work your way up to the hotties.
I blush a lot while talking to women of my age under informal settings. Why is that, what could be causing this and how can I overcome ? I am a fairly confident and reasonably well educated person, but this keeps happening to me. It also gives a very wrong impression about my attitude. Tell me how to bridge the gap. This is a very big problem for me at the moment. I MUST EXTERMINATE this blushing behavior ASAP.
You are not alone, it has been happening to me since I was a kid and believe me I stoppped being a kid a long long time ago. Just try your best to keep your composure, maybe practice in front of the mirror or record yourself and then evaluate your expressions. A beautiful woman weakens me every time but I have learned to manage my demeanor and my reaction so I don't look stupid, I am too old for.that.
Probably because you've indicated in other threads that you have your life segregated into "school first, then work, THEN relationship" as if they cannot overlap.
Allow yourself to interact more with women in all kinds of situations and you will relax.
Also, the more you worry about it, the worse the blushing will get.
I blush a lot while talking to women of my age under informal settings. Why is that, what could be causing this and how can I overcome ? I am a fairly confident and reasonably well educated person, but this keeps happening to me. It also gives a very wrong impression about my attitude. Tell me how to bridge the gap. This is a very big problem for me at the moment. I MUST EXTERMINATE this blushing behavior ASAP.
It's okay, you are not alone. A lot of women I talk to have this same problem when talking to me. When they talk to my friends or anyone else they keep normal.
Work your way up - practice talking with older women first or some that are really nice. Work your way up to the hotties.
I actually have much better conversations with women in their 40's than those in my range (20-25 years). When I don't percieve too much physical beauty, I tend to do an amazing job at having a direct 1:1 conversation.
Its only certain figures that make me blush (Mostly tall and athletic hourglass figures with light tans who leave me daydreaming ). If only I had the courage to approach up front without blushing.
Last edited by Adi from the Brunswicks; 07-25-2014 at 12:24 PM..
I actually have much better conversations with women in their 40's than those in my range (20-25 years). When I don't percieve too much physical beauty, I tend to do an amazing job at having a direct 1:1 conversation.
Its only certain figures that make me blush (Mostly tall and athletic hourglass figures with light tans who leave me daydreaming ). If only I had the courage to approach up front without blushing.
Actually, do not worry about the blush. You wear that blush with pride. They might actually be flattered and it could make their day.
The only reason you shouldn't talk to someone you are interested in is if you have something else going on (which could be anything).
Last edited by TJenkins602; 07-25-2014 at 02:51 PM..
Can you map your thought process? You can change your thought pattern, but that will take time. In the mean time, I've heard preparation H stops the blushing because it constricts the blood flow.
I feel your pain. I blush in 50% of conversations. I just can't make small talk or speeches without getting uncomfortable unless it's about fishing or websites. I'm married, but I get beet red when speaking with a handsome man. I've thought about a public speaking group. If I could talk to 10 people, I should also be able to talk to one confidently...
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). If only I had the courage to approach up front without blushing.
