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Old 07-27-2014, 03:15 PM
 
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When you are in a ltr, you spend a lot of time with your partner. This can introduce you to things you may have never imagined doing. Or maybe it was a type of music, that was something you never listened to before, but once your SO introduced you to it, you were hooked.
My ex innocently introduced me to a (legal) substance that I started to abuse later on and still do.
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Old 07-27-2014, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Denver
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My ex innocently introduced me to a (legal) substance that I started to abuse later on and still do.
There are support groups for this sort of thing.
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Old 07-27-2014, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I'm kind of with you. However, I think it'd be beneficial if you could both take on some active hobbies (hiking, jogging, cycling, etc.) so that you both keep at the same pace in life. I don't know that anyone wants to become the "fat, out of shape" partner while the other is still killing it in that department. May as well maintain together.
He's not fat at all, pure muscle and an athlete.
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Old 07-27-2014, 03:19 PM
 
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There are support groups for this sort of thing.
I don't have a desire to stop though. lol I don't do it as much as I used to and I've already spoken to my doctor about it, and she doesn't seem too concerned.
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Old 07-27-2014, 03:22 PM
 
Location: Alameda, Ca
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None. I have hobbies most women could care less about, and I usually have no real interest in theirs.

I think it's better that way.
Yeah I like the ocean and sport fishing, and I find most don't like to do it. But I fell into that crafting stuff, I did it mostly since I was into her, so it gave me an opportunity to hang out...I agree, only in moderation
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Old 07-27-2014, 03:22 PM
 
Location: Denver
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He's not fat at all, pure muscle and an athlete.
Wait, your husband or hawaiiancoconut?
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Old 07-27-2014, 03:23 PM
 
Location: Denver
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I don't have a desire to stop though. lol I don't do it as much as I used to and I've already spoken to my doctor about it, and she doesn't seem too concerned.
Now I'm really curious what this substance is. Alcohol?
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Old 07-27-2014, 03:27 PM
 
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Now I'm really curious what this substance is. Alcohol?
Sort of. But not the kind you drink.
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Old 07-27-2014, 03:27 PM
 
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I enjoyed seazoos, racing my car, volleyball, firesafety, h20 car racing, wine tasting, poetry bars, cover bands, go cart racing, and water polo.
i knew there was a reason i liked you, A LOT!!! i used to be a crew chief on a B/fuel altered years ago.
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Old 07-27-2014, 03:27 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I'm kind of with you. However, I think it'd be beneficial if you could both take on some active hobbies (hiking, jogging, cycling, etc.) so that you both keep at the same pace in life. I don't know that anyone wants to become the "fat, out of shape" partner while the other is still killing it in that department. May as well maintain together.
I compete in ironmans and marathons and train very hard in that department. With that said, I rarely come across a woman that would partake in my passionate hobby. Most women I've dated stick to yoga, treadmills, etc; just not my pace. She's better off being a gym bunny, lol
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