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I likED him for 5 minutes. Then I saw him for who he was - a self-centered, self-absorbed rude d-bag.
He goes on about being single but I want to tell him I see exactly why he is!! The ONLY person he cares about is himself and will only do what benefits him.
The problem is the MANY MANY girls that chase him are basically condoning his behavior and making it ok. I am not that person and I think he sees that.
Exactly and he doesn't like the fact that you saw it and actually nipped it in the bud rather than being a pawn in his game.
Women are attracted to self confidence. Sounds like this man is. It also sounds like he expects women to fall all over him, and this helps his self confidence. When you said you just wanted to be group friends, that rocked his boat a little bit.
Thats why women chase after a man like that. And they always will, because there is a thin line between self confidence and being cocky.
I can tell you this, from reading your posts, you are cocky and self confident as well. That is a major turn off or turn on for some men. You state how good you perceive yourself on the field, but I never heard sweetness or MJ talking about how great they were, they just let everyone else do that, and let the play do the talking.
Sounds like y'all are both type A personalities, and two type A folks don't get along very well in a relationship, because you're always trying to one up the other person.
Haha, I'm very confident in my ability to play ball but please don't think I go around bragging about it.
I may have overly stated it on here because typically girls aren't that awesome at sports. And I can't show you guys me ability through the computer screen. I usually let me skill set speak on the field.
I agree with the poster that said it sounds like he wanted a quick hookup and when that didn't happen and you were cool about it, he got mad. I'd stay on the softball team but get off the football team.
I agree with the poster that said it sounds like he wanted a quick hookup and when that didn't happen and you were cool about it, he got mad. I'd stay on the softball team but get off the football team.
Don't you think though, if he wanted a quick hook-up, he would have sleeped with me when he stayed at my house? I think he just likes to play games.
Don't you think though, if he wanted a quick hook-up, he would have sleeped with me when he stayed at my house? I think he just likes to play games.
No. I think he wanted to establish some sort of friendly relationship first and then slip into a FWB relationship. I think he was feeling you out first. Sounds like that's part of his game. He flirts, feels out girls to see how much they're into him and sees if he can get away with a FWB relationship but tells the girls to keep it on the down low, as to not disrupt the "team dynamics". I wouldn't be surprised if he and the other girl got something going on but they're playing the "hush hush" game.
No. I think he wanted to establish some sort of friendly relationship first and then slip into a FWB relationship. I think he was feeling you out first. Sounds like that's part of his game. He flirts, feels out girls to see how much they're into him and sees if he can get away with a FWB relationship but tells the girls to keep it on the down low, as to not disrupt the "team dynamics". I wouldn't be surprised if he and the other girl got something going on but they're playing the "hush hush" game.
They don't. I'm 100% sure of this. They have never been physical. He just uses her for the benefits she offers like texting her pictures of the outfit he is planning on wearing for a date or getting her to help plan the date or crashing at her place after a night out on the town with other females.
They don't. I'm 100% sure of this. They have never been physical. He just uses her for the benefits she offers like texting her pictures of the outfit he is planning on wearing for a date or getting her to help plan the date or crashing at her place after a night out on the town with other females.
Good grief..really? LOL..and she knows he's not into her? Maybe you can shake some sense into her!
No. I think he wanted to establish some sort of friendly relationship first and then slip into a FWB relationship. I think he was feeling you out first. Sounds like that's part of his game. He flirts, feels out girls to see how much they're into him and sees if he can get away with a FWB relationship but tells the girls to keep it on the down low, as to not disrupt the "team dynamics". I wouldn't be surprised if he and the other girl got something going on but they're playing the "hush hush" game.
I agree with this ^^^. I think he was "grooming" you and got pissy when you decided you weren't going to follow his plan.
Good grief..really? LOL..and she knows he's not into her? Maybe you can shake some sense into her!
Apparently everyone has tried. Its actually really pathetic.
The stories I've heard are ridiculous. She told me Sunday that she told him she wanted to make-out and he flat out told her no. Our other friend told me that if he calls and they are in a group setting, she will leave the group for 30mins-hour to talk. Any favor he asks of her, she does it.
Apparently everyone has tried. Its actually really pathetic.
The stories I've heard are ridiculous. She told me Sunday that she told him she wanted to make-out and he flat out told her no. Our other friend told me that if he calls and they are in a group setting, she will leave the group for 30mins-hour to talk. Any favor he asks of her, she does it.
I think she is lying to you. She is doing what he asked her to, keeping it on the down-low.
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