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Old 08-16-2014, 09:10 PM
 
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Hey everyone,

Well I have been seeing this guy for a month. We have been on several dates. We live 30 min apart and so far have traveled to each other cities. We have everything in common we look for the same things in relationships and I'm life. We both are sports fans (I know crazy, 2 gay guys loving sports). Only thing is I'm a chubby guy and he is skinny and into running. I feel like chemistry is there we always have something to talk about. I'm really wanted things to come together but I'm terrified of asking if he is into me? How do I ask him if he wants to be in a relationship?
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Old 08-16-2014, 09:11 PM
 
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One month is pretty soon in my opinion, give it more time and let things flow naturally. You don't want to have that discussion too soon or it could scare him off.
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Old 08-16-2014, 09:12 PM
 
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Have you had sex?
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Old 08-16-2014, 09:17 PM
 
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Have you had sex?
No we have had no sex
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Old 08-16-2014, 09:18 PM
 
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One month is pretty soon in my opinion, give it more time and let things flow naturally. You don't want to have that discussion too soon or it could scare him off.


We have talked 2 months on a dating site and have been out on dates several times for a month
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Old 08-16-2014, 09:19 PM
 
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Jeez, I don't know if he's into you either.
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Old 08-16-2014, 09:21 PM
 
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Jeez, I don't know if he's into you either.


The dates are amazing we have great conversations just the other night I met him at 530 he took me to dinner them we went to a huge Park in the city and walked for a hour or so then went and had a couple of beers and then watched a football game at his place til 1 am
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Old 08-16-2014, 09:22 PM
 
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One month is pretty soon in my opinion, give it more time and let things flow naturally. You don't want to have that discussion too soon or it could scare him off.



Well we have been taking on a dating site for awhile before actually meeting
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Old 08-17-2014, 04:01 AM
 
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Well we have been taking on a dating site for awhile before actually meeting

Still very different than talking in person for a while before actually going on a date.
I would still approach that discussion after a bit more time has passed.
The relationship is still very new to both of you and so far the tested waters have
been quite warm and welcoming but cautious is the best way to proceed in my opinion.
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