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Old 08-16-2014, 05:49 PM
 
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I don't know about how ladies think about this issue. As a man, I really like to hang out/date with multiple women as a time. It does give you options to hedge. However sometimes I do feel a little guilty and fear that it may backfire if either of the girls finds out, Plus it can be very overwhelming.

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Old 08-16-2014, 05:51 PM
 
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As long as you have not told any of them that you are "exclusive" date away, I always dated more than one guy at a time when I was dating, not an issue with me.
I also did not commit to any of them exclusively until I met my Husband then the rest of them went on with their lives and I stayed with my Husband.
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Old 08-16-2014, 05:53 PM
 
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Yes, I dated more than one person when I was single. If you aren't in a monogamous relationship, go for it. Just be clear with them that you are seeing other people.

Once you find someone that you are really compatible with, you can decide to take it to another level.
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Old 08-16-2014, 05:54 PM
 
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As long as you have not told any of them that you are "exclusive" date away, I always dated more than one guy at a time when I was dating, not an issue with me.
I also did not commit to any of them exclusively until I met my Husband then the rest of them went on with their lives and I stayed with my Husband.
That's so funny. Me too!

I was casually dating a guy and I met my husband. That night I broke up with the other guy. I knew My husband was something special.
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Old 08-16-2014, 06:01 PM
 
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Yes it is
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Old 08-16-2014, 06:01 PM
 
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I don't know about how ladies think about this issue. As a man, I really like to hang out with multiple women as a time. It does give you options to hedge. However sometimes I do feel a little guilty and fear that it may backfire if either of the girls finds out, Plus it can be very overwhelming.
Do you think it's okay if the woman you are dating is hanging out with multiple men including you?
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Old 08-16-2014, 06:05 PM
 
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Do you think it's okay if the woman you are dating is hanging out with multiple men including you?
I will feel just a bit uneasy , however it depends on the situation. If she is my girlfriend , I will be not so happy about it. But if it's just the girl I like and she has not committed to a long term relationship with me, that 's her choice.
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Old 08-16-2014, 06:08 PM
 
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I don't know about how ladies think about this issue. As a man, I really like to hang out with multiple women as a time. It does give you options to hedge. However sometimes I do feel a little guilty and fear that it may backfire if either of the girls finds out, Plus it can be very overwhelming.
I can talk to multi guys at one time, but there is always just ONE person I like the most. Once I develop some kind of romantic feeling toward this guy, I turn myself into this really big loser.

So no, I don't think I can date more than one at a time.

I have a guy friend who tells every girl he met that he was a lady's man. Why on earth do you say that to girls? Do you believe that girls would take you more seriously because they have competition?

Hang out with multiple women should be acceptable. Dating? I personally cannot do it.
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Old 08-16-2014, 06:11 PM
 
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Are you exclusive? If not, the answer is yes.
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Old 08-16-2014, 06:11 PM
 
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I don't see why you coudn't date multiple people at once.

Hell, as some people say, you're single until you're married.
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