28...never dated before...seems odd...want to change.. (dating, male, advice)

[karmen rouge]

I'm not sure why, but I haven't dated before. i think it's because I don't converse much and I need to lose weight. i'm doing both.

Is this common, or am I just a saddo?

[BirdieBelle]

On City Data, it is becoming much more common.

Are you male or female? What country do you live in??

[MarshallV84]

I'm a late bloomer as well. It's a rough path but it's certainly worth the effort!

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by karmen rouge

I'm not sure why, but I haven't dated before. i think it's because I don't converse much and I need to lose weight. i'm doing both.

Is this common, or am I just a saddo?

Nonsense I'm fat and dated.Work on your self esteem.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

On City Data, it is becoming much more common.

Are you male or female? What country do you live in??

I do agree here, waaaay too many never tried dating.

[Auraliea]

It's not odd.

It's way more common than you think.

[Moe'sTavern]

Join the club, my friend. We have free beer.

[karmen rouge]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Nonsense I'm fat and dated.Work on your self esteem.

Sorry i like myself ok enough. Self-esteem? Liberal PC beliefs comprise dating norms?

[elhelmete]

Originally Posted by karmen rouge

I'm not sure why, but I haven't dated before. i think it's because I don't converse much and I need to lose weight.

Based on your posts I can think of another more plausible reason.

[Memphis1979]

I do not get this. 28 and never dated?

The words of my daddy are ringing in my ears from when I was 12, not 28. "Boy, you need to get out more, make some friends."

Same advice to you. Grow a pair.