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Old 08-17-2014, 11:09 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Well I managed to get all my ex's things together and get 'em out to her. I guess what hurts me more than anything else is that she never even said a simple "Thank You" for anything. Kindness mistaken for weakness. I'm just glad that I know where I stand with her now. I'm done! Time to move forward with my life.
You will be okay. Stay strong.
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Old 08-17-2014, 12:30 PM
 
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"Kindness mistaken for weakness" is a pretty strong comment. Doesnt sound good for the next relationship, does it?

I agree. He definitely needs to see a counselor for a while before he tries dating again.
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Old 08-17-2014, 12:40 PM
 
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Maybe, but all I know is that she got her things C.O.D.
I may or may not date again, who knows. But chances of my remarrying are next to nil. Ironically, an old girlfriend just called me, but I made it clear, I'm not interested - not now, my wounds are still healing.
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Old 08-17-2014, 11:04 PM
 
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Well I managed to get all my ex's things together and get 'em out to her. I guess what hurts me more than anything else is that she never even said a simple "Thank You" for anything. Kindness mistaken for weakness. I'm just glad that I know where I stand with her now. I'm done! Time to move forward with my life.
You know what. She did you a favor. By responding back, she's only prolonging the pain.

By not responding back, you definitely know she's not the one for you.

Don't beg her back. Moving on = letting go. Now.
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Old 08-17-2014, 11:21 PM
 
Location: D.C.
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I understand how you feel, happened to me too. I really think you're better off. Just don't let it make you bitter. I think you're very smart to tell the old girlfriend you were not interested, remember she's an ex for a reason. No need to revisit.
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