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Old 08-17-2014, 08:49 AM
 
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Well I managed to get all my ex's things together and get 'em out to her. I guess what hurts me more than anything else is that she never even said a simple "Thank You" for anything. Kindness mistaken for weakness. I'm just glad that I know where I stand with her now. I'm done! Time to move forward with my life.
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Old 08-17-2014, 08:52 AM
 
Location: Subconscious Syncope, USA (Northeastern US)
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Um...

You're that good, you deserved a "Thank you"? Why'd she leave?

So, she was thanking you for what exactly?

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Old 08-17-2014, 08:56 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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It's a continuation of previous posts.

OP, don't expect ANYTHING from somebody you're not involved with any longer. Cease the expectations.
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Old 08-17-2014, 09:00 AM
 
Location: Subconscious Syncope, USA (Northeastern US)
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"Kindness mistaken for weakness" is a pretty strong comment. Doesnt sound good for the next relationship, does it?

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Old 08-17-2014, 09:06 AM
 
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OP, don't expect ANYTHING from somebody you're not involved with any longer. Cease the expectations.
/\ This. She left two weeks ago, said she wanted to go back home. Long story short, she wanted me to leave my job, home, and resources and move with her. Couldn't do it.
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Old 08-17-2014, 09:10 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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"Kindness mistaken for weakness" is a pretty strong comment. Doesnt sound good for the next relationship, does it?

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So you can catch up:

Post-separation rearranging
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Old 08-17-2014, 09:12 AM
 
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Good for you buddy.
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Old 08-17-2014, 09:45 AM
 
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Um...

You're that good, you deserved a "Thank you"? Why'd she leave?

So, she was thanking you for what exactly?

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Actually, yes, he does owe him a thank you. She left him. He would not have been out of line to tell her to come and get her stuff.
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Old 08-17-2014, 09:48 AM
 
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Based on what you've written about this woman, it doesn't seem realistic to expect a thank you.
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Old 08-17-2014, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Subconscious Syncope, USA (Northeastern US)
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Actually, yes, he does owe him a thank you. She left him. He would not have been out of line to tell her to come and get her stuff.
Thank you. I didnt understand that it was the guy that got her that owes him a thank you.

Im sure he would have responded more positively if the other guy had said that, cause, ya know...she was his gift to him.

She should have thanked him for being nice enough to forward her stuff to her, but she might be waiting to receive it. *shrugs*


@OP,

Its good you are done with her. Be truely done with her, and dont make your next woman pay for this ones outcome. It obviously wasnt meant to be, afterall.

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