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This is very true. It seems like the best type of guy has to be bipolar in both opposite sides of the spectrum and guys like that are very rare. Women can get a man that is romantic, attractive, sexy but a constant cheater. Vs a man that pays the bills, cooks, family oriented, helps kids with home work, being a great provider, but boring in the love department. Either way women won't be be happy in the long run whether the guy is a bad boy or a nice guy.
This is why I don't date I was the latter but it didn't mean much to women they will never be happy.
This is very true. It seems like the best type of guy has to be bipolar in both opposite sides of the spectrum and guys like that are very rare. Women can get a man that is romantic, attractive, sexy but a constant cheater. Vs a man that pays the bills, cooks, family oriented, helps kids with home work, being a great provider, but boring in the love department. Either way women won't be be happy in the long run whether the guy is a bad boy or a nice guy.
Why would those things group together? Being helpful, family-oriented, a good provider + boring in bed? They don't necessarily go together. It's not a given.
For many women, it's very hard to find a man who romantically/sexually exites them but at the same time has all the classic good husband qualities(loyal, loving, good father, provider, responsible, etc). Those guys who have both are rare and get scooped up very quickly.
It's like the NBA, there is a handful of elite 2 way players with no flaws in their games. Then you have a bunch of one dimensional guys who are severely lacking in big areas
Like Ruth said why would a good husband not also be awesome in the sack. And how would a woman know if for sure if they are marrying a man that will be loyal and a good father? Or if a guy is good in the sack he wont be loyal, loving and a good father and provider?
Divorce rates are falling, especially for younger people. How does that reflect an "instant graditude" [sic] society?
All it means is that those "younger people" are waiting longer to get married so they aren't kids who then "grow up" and out of a marriage. They're still spoiled rotten...ha
The problem with guys nowadays is the way they take on their role. It's not the act of helping with the grocery shopping, or picking up the kids at school, nor is cleaning the house of doing the laundry....however, you better come home, and drop that bag of groceries on the floor, and shove your woman against the wall, and take her, if you want to keep her excited enough to preserve your relationship. As long as your partner is excited, they have no reason to look elsewhere.... You may laugh, but you'll be laughing in divorce court, while I am celebrating another 10 years of marriage.
The only ones chasing bad guys are the ones that don’t find out until later that they’ve been duped by the media again.
There’s just something so sexy about:
Crappy credit
Felony backgrounds
Making bastard children
Price point prison ink
No job
No car
No cash
Getting a fat lip and a black eye
The sad part is that some of these women end up with Stockholm syndrome and will be a door mat for the rest of the their years.
Being a bad boy doesn't mean that a guy has any of the above qualities at all. It's about attitude, not necessarily his looks or finances.....You're quite wrong in your beliefs. As a matter of fact the best bad boys are the ones who are easily mistaken for being an outstanding guy....only after the woman gets involved will she ever find out how bad he is.
The problem with guys nowadays is the way they take on their role. It's not the act of helping with the grocery shopping, or picking up the kids at school, nor is cleaning the house of doing the laundry....however, you better come home, and drop that bag of groceries on the floor, and shove your woman against the wall, and take her, if you want to keep her excited enough to preserve your relationship. As long as your partner is excited, they have no reason to look elsewhere.... You may laugh, but you'll be laughing in divorce court, while I am celebrating another 10 years of marriage.
I have met only a very few divorcees that wanted to be husbands. The ones I met who left did so because of lack of respect, their partner's engagement in the relationship, and/or intimacy at all levels.
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