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Old 08-17-2014, 09:20 AM
 
Location: IN
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I've never experienced this but my new friend and I cuddle a lot and he is always turning it into smelling me deeply all over, squeezing me hard (in non-sexual places), and then trembling. Now, one might expect this from a young man but he is over 30 and has been in serious relationships that lasted years so it isn't a new thing for him.

Is this normal for some people? I feel like he has some kind of smelling fetish and I cannot figure out the trembling.
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Old 08-17-2014, 09:35 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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I've never experienced this but my new friend and I cuddle a lot and he is always turning it into smelling me deeply all over, squeezing me hard (in non-sexual places), and then trembling. Now, one might expect this from a young man but he is over 30 and has been in serious relationships that lasted years so it isn't a new thing for him.

Is this normal for some people? I feel like he has some kind of smelling fetish and I cannot figure out the trembling.
LOL, probably.
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Old 08-17-2014, 09:37 AM
 
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Turn down the AC and see if that helps.
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Old 08-17-2014, 09:40 AM
 
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Is this happening before or after sex?
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Old 08-17-2014, 09:41 AM
 
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Umm...

What is this cuddling with opposite sex friends?
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Old 08-17-2014, 09:48 AM
 
Location: Earth
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When someone is very excited or nervous, adrenaline is released in the body which causes tremors. You ever been really nervous or excited and your hands shook?

Some people tremble with cuddling or petting. No issues, but they're very excited.

And as for smelling, I know some guys like to smell their girl's hair. It's just another form of excitement I think. Wanting to get as much of the person as possible-taking them all in.
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Old 08-17-2014, 09:57 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Is your new friend one of those miniature dogs?
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Old 08-17-2014, 10:09 AM
 
Location: Subconscious Syncope, USA (Northeastern US)
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I've never experienced this but my new friend and I cuddle a lot and he is always turning it into smelling me deeply all over, squeezing me hard (in non-sexual places), and then trembling. Now, one might expect this from a young man but he is over 30 and has been in serious relationships that lasted years so it isn't a new thing for him.

Is this normal for some people? I feel like he has some kind of smelling fetish and I cannot figure out the trembling.
As much as we may not want to think about it, humans are mammals, like any other. Smelling your family, and knowing their scent is normal.

All three things seem to indicate his loving you and learning to trust you. Go with it, and I dont know why you would find any of it strange. Maybe your relationship will last years too.
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Old 08-17-2014, 10:34 AM
 
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I've never experienced this but my new friend and I cuddle a lot and he is always turning it into smelling me deeply all over, squeezing me hard (in non-sexual places), and then trembling. Now, one might expect this from a young man but he is over 30 and has been in serious relationships that lasted years so it isn't a new thing for him.

Is this normal for some people? I feel like he has some kind of smelling fetish and I cannot figure out the trembling.
he is just showing that he really is into you. he enjoys your scent, the way you feel against his body, he is reveling in you. i do similar things with every woman that lets me.
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Old 08-17-2014, 10:41 AM
 
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I've never gotten this treatment from women I'm not dating before.

The real question none of us have asked yet: Does he have a boner when he's cuddling with you? Cuz I'm betting he does.
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