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Old 08-17-2014, 01:21 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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I'm really silly and goofy, I can't help it, it's just part of my personality. I fear that when marriage-minded guys experience this with me, coupled with me being so petite, they won't take me seriously.
hehehe I think they would take you more seriously.
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Old 08-17-2014, 01:22 PM
 
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Eh. Being single is great for a while. Eventually it ****ing sucks.
Lol it's true-
it's lame, boring
& also no nightly sex with someone
who actually cares about you.
It absolutely fu*king sucks
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Old 08-17-2014, 01:23 PM
 
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I'm really silly and goofy, I can't help it, it's just part of my personality. I fear that when marriage-minded guys experience this with me, coupled with me being so petite, they won't take me seriously.

What does ones physical stature have to do with anything?
They either want you or they don't.
I never minded being single or married one way or the other.
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Old 08-17-2014, 01:24 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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hehehe I think they would take you more seriously.
Truth.
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Old 08-17-2014, 01:24 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I'm really silly and goofy, I can't help it, it's just part of my personality. I fear that when marriage-minded guys experience this with me, coupled with me being so petite, they won't take me seriously.
That would only be an obstacle if you look a lot younger than your age. They might write you off as being too young for them. Otherwise, guys like playfulness. It's not like they think you have to be serious all the time, lol.
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Old 08-17-2014, 02:07 PM
 
Location: Nashville, TN -
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I'm not sure why you would even question this, srjth. Of course you could get married again. You seem like a very smart, kind woman (and you're also very attractive).
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Old 08-17-2014, 02:25 PM
 
Location: moved
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I'm glad to see an optimistic thread, with emphasis on how to solve an identified problem, instead of how to escape from it!

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... but you have to put yourself back on the market!
The crucial consideration. Many candidates have to be surveyed, before one is chosen. But how to even begin the survey?

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Marriage is nice. Having someone to share your life with is dandy. Finding them is the challenge.
Finding (and having them find you!), then retaining - both prodigious challenges.

Yet somehow most of humanity has managed to overcome these challenges. What is their secret?
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Old 08-17-2014, 02:37 PM
 
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Do you think I can? Looking at the pictures of the celebrity couples who have been together 25+ years makes me long for this sort of bond.
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I'm really silly and goofy, I can't help it, it's just part of my personality. I fear that when marriage-minded guys experience this with me, coupled with me being so petite, they won't take me seriously.
certainly you can get married again. you playfulness is a wonderful part of your personality. and being petite, heck that would make things easy, i would just toss you into one of my pockets and take you anywhere

and then when i talk to people, and say things like yes we would like that, and they ask if i have a mouse in my pocket, i would say no just my girlfriend
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Old 08-17-2014, 03:01 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Lol it's true-
it's lame, boring
& also no nightly sex with someone
who actually cares about you.
It absolutely fu*king sucks
I don't think it's THAT serious but eh to each his/her own.
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Old 08-17-2014, 03:04 PM
 
Location: Kaliforneea
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Yes absolutely! I wish you all the best in love and happiness!

But to be honest, consider a pre-nup.
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